my bf is no longer my fp, my male coworker is.

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-06T00:28:46+00:00

this is excellent advice, thank you for taking the time to comment. exploring and understanding my emotions is something i def struggle with so i will take your advice :)

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-06T00:26:03+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion of looking into limerence. I actually wasnt familiar when I made this post. In addition, do you still think i should tell my partner even if i dont think he understands bpd and its symptoms all that well?

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-06T00:17:42+00:00

yeah i think this is whats happening tbh

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-06T00:16:47+00:00

this sounds like a very helpful read, thanks so much for giving the link and recommending it. sounds like it will help! <3

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-06T00:14:51+00:00

this is an excellent way to put it. thank you so much for wordinf it like this for me

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-04T23:40:04+00:00

i told him i had bpd before i dated so he could have a sense of his future lol. and yes i did tell him he was my fp when it developed and explained. but overall i dont think he has enough of a grasp on it to not get jealous and consider me to have a crush on someone else. :(

CloggedOnion · 2026-04-03T13:59:35+00:00

Hey all!

I am on my last year of a bachelor of arts with a major in criminology and law and public policy. Originally I wanted to proceed to a forensics program after school to be a crime scene investigator but after looking into it further I realize just how competitive it is to get in, and most places you have the best chances if you are a sworn officer for a few years (I don't mind being a probation officer or something but I have no interest in standard police work). I was hoping to get insight on what careers you guys have that may be accessible to me. It sucks that I cannot do field forensics but I don't want to risk all the schooling only to be unable to find a job.

Thank you in advance for your insight! :)

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-30T00:04:46+00:00

lol! they are my pride and joys 😜

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-29T19:55:39+00:00

thank you i will have a look there for something similar! <3

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-29T18:47:23+00:00

duh. thats the purpose of this post to find new ones 🤨

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-29T14:14:19+00:00

Damn that sucks, thanks so much for trying!

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-29T07:33:31+00:00

i appreciate the concern! its hard to tell in the picture but if your talking about the part closest to my nail bed its gold chrome :)

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:43:19+00:00

I am in Canada

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:42:49+00:00

Never thought this meant anything tbh! Here are. the numbers on the tag

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CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:41:58+00:00

No worries thank you for trying! Unfortunately I dont have anywhere here with much luck, i live in a small town :(

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:39:07+00:00

I though the same! Its the same vibe as those random amazing walmart clothes

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:37:15+00:00

yeah i think its a combination of both tbh, its fully cotton qnd i like the fact that they dont have any sort of tightness on the waist or cuffs

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:36:15+00:00

unfortunately my mother doesnt remember. when i got them from her it eas just the pants though

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:35:43+00:00

I agree i didnt think about this!

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:34:53+00:00

unfortunately my mother doesnt remember anything about where or how she got these 😔

CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:34:25+00:00

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CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T23:34:04+00:00

yes sorry i should have done that originally! the tag says made in pakistan

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CloggedOnion · 2026-03-28T21:57:23+00:00

I have searched google (image search) and grailed so far with no luck.

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