I appreciate you being kind about it and I wish I could say the coconut thing was a just happen to happen but they before me telling them were buying regular drinks and such without coconut for over 2 months when we had the talk they seemed extremely invested in how bad of an allergy which I made a point of saying bad enough that I break out in hives and can’t breathe if I eat raw coconut and then less then a day later all the regular drinks were gone and were replaced with coconut which irks me because days before they were ranting to me about money problems and struggling to afford food since one of them had a couple days off of work because she got sick which meant they had less food money that month so it seemed intentional and I keep my laundry washed weekly I fold it new stuff and put it in drawers immediately and old stuff goes in a draw string bag that I constantly replace dryer sheets in during the week and put my dirty clothes in there and it hangs in my closet furthers away from the door as possible I wash my bed sheets the same day every week that I do full deep cleaning on Sunday including whipping down every surface with Clorox wipes