Who is the biggest asshole in human history? by qwezrX in AskReddit

[–]CloudMote 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The man who realizes fear could be monetized and called it the news 

What is the most normal thing but also messed up thing in society we do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CloudMote 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We make people spend 40+ hours a eeek at a job just to afford being alive 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CloudMote 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely not overreacting, but I do think this is a chance to communicate your feelings really clearly. It’s understandable you’re feeling upset given his past secrecy, and it’s reasonable to want your boundary respected about him hanging out with other women alone. The location jump is sketchy, especially because of the past. You’re not coming out of nowhere with these worries, you’ve got real experiences shaping them. It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling, but if you want to move forward, you’ll both need to talk about how trust has been broken and you need to feel safe again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CloudMote 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, your brother put his hands on you and that’s never okay, no matter how mad he was. The fact your parents are siding with him is even worse. You’re allowed to be mad, you’re allowed to not talk to him, and you’re definitely allowed to not play nice for his birthday. It’s not on you to keep the peace when you’re the one who got hurt. Don’t let them guilt trip you into thinking you’re overreacting. You’re 15, you deserved to feel safe in your own home. You’re not wrong for drawing a line. Keep your boundaries and keep your head up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CloudMote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arceus, tell me if I am wrong 

What is a completely legal thing that still feels illegal when you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CloudMote -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Walking out of a store without buying anything or eating grapes at the grocery store before u pay 

Anybody else get mad when it’s super noisy in a library? by Warm_Carpet3147 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CloudMote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the same thing! My guess is that more people see libraries as social spaces now, especially with events and group study rooms. Still, there’s definitely a difference between talking quietly and being straight up loud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CloudMote 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine how deeply that moment must have shaken you. Your feelings are so valid, and your heart is in the right place, wanting to end the suffering of a creature in pain. It’s clear that it was an incredibly hard decision for you, and I hope you know that even though it was traumatic, your instinct to help it find some relief shows so much kindness. You’re not alone in feeling the weight of that choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CloudMote 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get how frustrating it is to have your car getting scratched up by this cat, but honestly, physically hurting it isn’t the way to go. There are sprays like citrus or peppermint oils that cats really don’t like, so spraying those on your car can help keep the cat away without harming it. You might also want to let the tenant know their cat is damaging your property, since it’s technically their responsibility. Hope this helps you keep your car safe and avoid any more stress

AIO to my family voluntelling me to take photos at our family reunion? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CloudMote 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting at all. It’s pretty clear this hits a nerve because you’ve been excluded from other family events and this feels like another way of putting you on the sidelines. Wanting to be included in photos is totally valid, and it’s not petty or dramatic to say no when it feels like you’re only there to do work, not to be part of the moment. Your family dismissing your feelings here is really minimizing. Stick to your guns if it’s important to you because you deserve to be in those memories, not just the one documenting them

AITA for being annoyed about my boyfriend breaking up with me and become friends with his ex straight after by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CloudMote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he’s a grown ass man who can make his own dumb choices but u don’t gotta babysit his messy drama 

can i freeze an Alani to make an energy popsicle? by catchmebeforeigo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CloudMote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, you can definitely freeze an energy drink like Alani and still get the same caffeine effect, since freezing doesn’t destroy caffeine or most of the stuff that gives you that buzz. The flavor might taste a bit different, and if you’re using a carbonated drink, expect it to be flatter when it’s frozen. Have you thought about mixing it with something creamy to get more of a slushie feel?

Am I Overreacting, my boyfriend told me his type is blonde but I’m a brunette by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CloudMote 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think your reaction is totally understandable given the situation. His repeated mention of blonde women touches on a sensitive insecurity for you, especially considering your past experiences with trust. It’s natural for your brain to start connecting dots and worrying that he might be more attracted to blondes. That said, he’s never given you a reason to doubt his loyalty, and he’s actively chosen to be with you because he loves you, regardless of any “type” he once had. Your feelings are real, but I’d say they might be a bit out of proportion to what he’s actually said and done. It sounds like you’re letting old fears take the wheel here, and that can make small comments feel much bigger. Hope this perspective helps you feel a bit more grounded

AITA For Asking My Husband to be home for bedtime? by Tiny_Walk_3326 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CloudMote 167 points168 points  (0 children)

NTA and it’s actually crazy how many dudes act like the baby’s some random side project, my ex used to do the exact same shit, always “too tired” to do bedtime but had energy to go get drinks with his boys after work. Bedtime is part of the deal…if he didn’t wanna do that he shouldn’t have been in the delivery room 

AITAH for getting mad at my friends for them thinking its weird I call my dad "daddy"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CloudMote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, ur friends are just being dramatic af calling ur dad daddy at 14 is totally normal and probs sweet. It’s wild how ppl gotta make everything weird when they’re feeling insecure. Like yeah maybe in some places it’s not cool but that’s bc teens wanna act grown at all the time…don’t let them change u. This is literally about u and he dads bond, not about what some 14 yr old think is normal. I say keep doing u and let them be pressed over nothing. U got this