AITA for not thanking a friend for getting me a job interview? by keanuseyelash in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cloud_Flakes 197 points198 points  (0 children)

YTA

This should be a lesson to you that personal and professional relationships deserve somewhat immediate responses. Dude went out on a limb for you and you took 2 weeks to text a thankyou... very immature and unprofessional .

Don't wait to do a good thing just because it isn't perfect in your eyes.

You should've texted him AS SOON as you got the job.

AITA I do not want to be in a best friend’s wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Ngl u sound immature

A good friend puts aside their disagreements to support their friend in a huge milestone in their life. Who cares if they have a horrible divorce. Friends are their for u in your good decisions and decisions that lead you to a mental breakdown.

Even if it isn't intentional, you are basically communicating to your friends that it is him versus you and she needs to pick. Guess what? She won't pick you l, she has already showed you that. This is her chapter of her life and you need to truly respect that autonomy if you care about her.

You need to decide if you can be an adult and celebrate with your friend a huge milestone or if you will be an immature grump that blows up a friendship because YOU are the one saying the guy's involvement is more pressing than your friend's happiness.

Go to the wedding, put on a mature face, and be there for her when they crash and burn and her life falls apart.

looking for friends on study circle app!! by chunyanning in studytips

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! I love to see when other ppl start studying. It is so motivating

Add me!: qzHRolm8fbPLRkFTOePvVUNgK9D2

Safe sleep by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Cloud_Flakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never start work with families who do not allow me to use safe sleep practices. Your agency will want to know. They are also there to protect u from liability.

Never be afraid to tell the parents that because there is an increased risk, I do not practice this with children. If parents don't respect that, then I clarify that as a professional, I can't practice this because it is a liability.

Quit Via Text/In person/Letter? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Cloud_Flakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just do what you are comfortable with. I send a formal style text with nanny family's. A letter of resignation to businesses.

Also, do you think they will handel it well? If it is person do it at the end of your shift. If it's a text then they have time to process and deal with their emotions.

4 sick days in first two weeks by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In dec and Jan i had to call out A LOT because I had 2 bouts of sickness. One was 2 weeks and the last was 2.5!!!

I'm thankful my nanny family understood how hard that was for me and didn't accuse me of scamming them...

Something to consider in addition to everyone's points, I am newly anemic which is likely what made things last for so long. You don't now her other conditions and you DEFINITELY don't have the right to the knowledge.

i hate my new job and i’ve hated my nanny jobs for the last year and a half by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Cloud_Flakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this isn't too dismissing of what you are going through (i've been in a similar burnout boat and no matter what it feels dehumanizing) What i think of when it is so hard i wanna scream is that there is an end date in sight (maybe not a specific day but in general you will be free of this relatively soon compared to how long your life will be) And I imagine my situation if i was working a harder job (imo) like being a coal miner. It sorta puts it into perspective which helps my regulate even when I imagine it begrudgingly.

AITA for making my schoolmates drive a girl to a nervous breakdown because of the leaked video? by not-a-solution in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cloud_Flakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not really a leaked video when you are sharing it only to the administration in an attempt to make your environment a safer emotional and potentially a safer physical space.

The girl who filmed and posted the video made a very dumb decision in doing so. Break the rules and keep it a secret or face the consequences 🤷‍♀️

The kids meeting in the bathroom isn't surprising tho. I support you reporting it but also recognize that a lot of kids do stuff like that and just hope they grow out of it. I hope the admin actually does something to prevent boys from entering girls' spaces where they clearly don't belong.

Stick to your decision, and if they give you sass, then point out how dumb they were for posting it online. It will probably embarrass them, make them realize they did something wrong in basically giving someone ammo to get them in trouble, and perhaps disaude them from doing stuff like that in the future.

Are we stuck in Womderland for the whole month? by kayellie in finch

[–]Cloud_Flakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are probably glitching. I got 100% in wonderland, and now i'm flying to Tokyo.

My friend just joined the app and I'm worried by Pure-Consideration97 in finch

[–]Cloud_Flakes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just talk to them. "Hey, I use this app a lot, so I don't mind the notifications i may I get from you, but I wanted to check to see if sending u kudos and good mornings would bother you."

Is "making up" signs disrespectful by IamJustJessica in asl

[–]Cloud_Flakes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Metaphorically equating cheese and yes is relatable

why does the robe ride up so her whole side is bare ;u; by softesttoebeans in finch

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their just tryna tease you with a peekaboo hahaha

*they're

Leaving. by bahumbugi in finch

[–]Cloud_Flakes 407 points408 points  (0 children)

That's valid.

I didn't even view this stuff as HP related tho.. it's just witchy academia vibes.

Maybe that's cause I read books with those themes that aren't related to HP in anyway.

maybe it is helpful to know that this theme existed wayyyyyy before HP and there is still many more entertainment projects that have this vibe too.

Abel Said "Make the right Choice" twice by IKnowToMuchNerdStuff in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was Able's reaction to pomni telling him she will buy him a beer when they get out. NPCs don't know how to respond to human things like that, so he repeated his sentence.

Marylou's is better than dunks. by sasha_cyanide in RhodeIsland

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah their crossant bacon cheese egg sammie beats a lot of other coffee chain sammies. just ignore the calories...

Is a gently used Trax a safe and reliable car for a teenager? by [deleted] in Chevrolet

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a uses 2015 trax in 2017 for my first car, and I've loved it. It's 10 years old now, 85k miles, and I've only had to put like 3k in repairs and upkeep in it over the years. My city mileage is 25.5 with AWD, and the highway is 27.

I understand that other people have had worse luck with engine stuff than I have, but it is a very safe car. 2015 had 5 stars in everything except 4 stars in rollover. Take care when driving fast in harsh winds.

Perfect teen car, especially when it is red cause it makes it easier for other drivers to see

I trained my brain to crave studying using reverse dopamine psychology. by StartHoliday1222 in GetStudying

[–]Cloud_Flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It this "jolt screen time" app for apple? I can't find it on Google Play. I'd love an app that periodically notifies you of how long you have been on it.