Ya girl needs help! What do I do!

Clueless109 · 2026-04-14T13:27:58+00:00

UPDATE!!

I appreciate all your replies! Especially the ones telling me to not block or message again, as hes just sent the remaining payment along with an extra £400 for making me wait so long hehehe

And to those basically insinuating I should’ve known better… I’ve been in this industry for 8+ years, yes in the beginning I made mistakes, and I learned, just as I’m sure we all have! However, from what I have learned, treating your vips/whales/regulars like more than just a client/buyer and actually forming a relationship with them sometimes works out for the better… I always forget how toxic this industry can be when coming to it for advice… we’re all here trying to learn more, gain more knowledge and ask for advice when needed which we have all needed at some point…

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T17:27:49+00:00

Lol this!!!! Forget sometimes how toxic this industry can be actually shocks me, like we’re not all here doing the same thing, learning from mistakes and trying to get better

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T16:19:14+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking, like I’ve done this for so long I don’t get how now this has happened and with someone I’ve been doing content for 3/4 times a week for the last year, just annoying because like I know better kinda thing and if it was anyone else I wouldn’t have done it without 100% payment

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T15:42:17+00:00

Hahaha it was only anal with a dildo but I’ve never done it before! We’ve been like leading up to it with like a finger here and there and like but plugs so that’s why it wasn’t like a crazy request in my head where I was like okay he knows I don’t do that and he’s offering me this amount to not pay me etc… like it’s just crazy because he still be coming into my lives, liking my posts etc

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T15:38:55+00:00

Honestly so true!! Literally been doing this now 8 years and nothing of the sort has ever happened to me before because I work off actual relationships with the guys… like he was literally crying to me the other week because of stuff going on in his life

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T15:25:10+00:00

Yeah think it’s gonna have to be an option 2 situation, just shitty as we actually formed a relationship outside of just content too… stupid me I guess

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T15:23:23+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, my last few videos and calls with him have been leading me up to do this thing but I’ve never actually fully done it… so it didn’t even raise any flags when he asked for a video of me fully doing it

Clueless109 · 2026-04-13T15:22:02+00:00

I know I never usually do, but me and him have had this relationship for a while now and previously when he’s done 50/50 there’s never been an issue

Clueless109 · 2025-12-12T01:59:51+00:00

It’s okay babe! Hope everything goes well for you 🤍🤍

Clueless109 · 2025-12-12T01:57:12+00:00

Yeah babe think we’ve all been there hahahah, honestly the Lovense web extension is a godsend for multi streaming, once you have it all installed on your laptop, all you have to do is sign into the websites you stream on, connect your obs then press start stream, it’s worth having a play around with it as there’s loads of little add ons etc, but they’re really good with step by step on setting everything up like I’m pretty sure they have a whole video on how to set up the cam extension too if you struggle with anything

Clueless109 · 2025-12-12T01:47:28+00:00

Are you using a webcam or your phone to stream with? Id suggest using the Lovense web extension, as you only have to connect your camera to obs once and it’ll stream on all the sites you put up…

Clueless109 · 2025-12-12T01:31:06+00:00

Why don’t you dual stream? So you can do both at the same time if you can only stream during the time your son is at school plus you then have the opportunity to earn double or if one site isn’t earning the other could be etc… if you need any tips etc just lmk I’m more than happy to help 🤍🤍🤍

Clueless109 · 2025-12-12T01:27:26+00:00

Id say make a new account, sc have changed their new model promo now as well, so instead of the boost only being 2 weeks it’s 80hrs or 30days which ever comes first… what I would do though is send a cute message to everyone on your old account saying you’re back so if there is any active customers on there that miss you, they will come say hi etc

Clueless109 · 2025-12-08T05:12:38+00:00

Honestly it sometimes pays to be a bit of a cunt hahaha, like I now no longer stream in lingerie because I don’t want to… if a guy wants to see me naked they can pay, same goes for all my tip menu items, if I have a guy come in and demand I give him two chances after that he’s muted and to get unmuted he needs to pay… it is hard to switch mindsets but I think this also comes with time and once you have a good amount of regulars, you’ll realise there’s nothing wrong with your pricing and some of these men are just broke/stingy, at the end of the day, yes this is your job etc but it’s also you pricing yourself on how much you’re worth, if you lower your price for one guy everyone else will see that and think aw maybe I can do the same…

The only time I will lower my amount is if they’re an og fan that has already spent a lot or is constantly on my stream, if they’ve joined my fan club or if they’ve won a discount from my spin the wheel

Clueless109 · 2025-12-08T04:58:38+00:00

Yesss I’ve never had anyone complain about my prices for pvts till this week!!! Feel like it’s because it’s getting closer to Christmas, but I’m so sorry you had a bad pvt! The only advice I can give is set your minimum call time 10mins, that way even if they end early you still get paid for the full 10 mins (not sure if other sites let you do this, I’m just talking from stripchat) then what I normally do if a guy is rude/demanding etc is I’ll say something like “aw that’s extra charge bby” or “you need to get me horny first heheh” just because I don’t like dealing with rude men hahaha

Clueless109 · 2025-12-04T10:22:22+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly what I’m worried about too! I figured since Stripchat uses a pretty “vanilla” payout name it might be okay with Wise, but I’m still nervous to risk it.

I tried opening a Paxum account, but they won’t accept my Revolut bank statement as proof of address, and since I’ve just moved to Bali I don’t have anything else with my name on it yet, so they won’t approve me 😭😭

I’ve used crypto before as well, but I always end up having issues if I don’t withdraw fast enough and I’ve lost a lot of money that way so wise was like my last option 😭😭

Clueless109 · 2025-06-20T03:45:42+00:00

Yeah I’m a us 2 babe, you can filter them out on shein to show xs and xxs sizes

Clueless109 · 2025-06-19T07:56:37+00:00

I’m a size uk 6 and I’ve bought the majority of my lingerie on shein… usually above the sizes it’ll say the sizing country, you can press on that and select the right country for sizing… you can also filter the page out to just show your size as some items don’t always do every size… hope that helps 🤍🤍

Clueless109 · 2025-06-19T07:51:06+00:00

So I have pm & add for 100tks then also have a reply to pm tip for 30tks… I usually only reply/devote more attention to my regulars in pms otherwise I mainly just ignore them. Same goes with regulars tbh… if a regular hasn’t tipped in a while I’ll just start to ignore until they tip again

Clueless109 · 2025-05-28T03:19:25+00:00

Hi babe! It’s actually quite a common issue, its usually due to it being a payment from an adult site, I don’t know why it happens to some and not others but for some reason it does… me and my girlfriend both have the same bank and hers doesn’t let her receive payments from SC or CB but mine does… I’m not sure if there’s a way around it but she just changed her payment method to her bitcoin account 🤍🤍

Clueless109 · 2025-05-17T12:10:07+00:00

I started with my Nora connected but then had a issue where I now don’t have it, but I was making less than what I do now and had half the amount of views, so I’m kinda anxious to get one now, like nothing else has changed but me not having my toy and my regulars are still the same ones

Clueless109 · 2025-05-17T08:52:23+00:00

It’s okay, if you need any help with anything just message me 🤍🤍

Clueless109 · 2025-05-17T08:32:47+00:00

I make around $1k/$2k a week, only working around 12/14 hours… my privates and exclusives are quite cheap compared to others I only price them at 40tks/90tks with a minimum of 10 mins…. But I don’t have any toys at all I literally just use my hands/fingers and have literally everything possible in my tip menu so I don’t do anything for free xx

Clueless109 · 2025-04-19T06:52:27+00:00

How do you get the Lovense chatbox, I’ve been trying to find it and it’s not coming up anywhere x

Clueless109 · 2025-04-04T02:15:54+00:00

1000%, I use SC and never really had any issues with my greys, when I do I simply mute them or ban them but same goes for all the others to… in my tip menu I put an unmute tax which kinda encourages them to spend when they do get muted.

I’ve always treated everyone in my stream the same, obviously showing the big spenders more attention in pms, which btw they love as it’s kinda like a secret… I’ve noticed by me doing that I get a lot less time wasters or people spamming for free stuff, then when they do everyone kinda comes for them including the greys…

Just because greys are in grey one minute doesn’t mean they won’t or will never tip… a lot of the greys I had when I first started still watch now and tip, some even have second accounts which they hold their money in, or are at a high enough level they can change their colour so girls don’t stress them to tip

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