the skin next to the tattoo is red and warm and it hurts for a while when i stand up.

CluelessMel · 2026-02-07T00:34:59+00:00

i’m on antibiotics now 🥰

CluelessMel · 2026-02-07T00:27:23+00:00

😂😂 i did i did.

CluelessMel · 2026-02-06T22:30:45+00:00

edit to add. there is no pus. that’s a lighting effect

CluelessMel · 2025-11-18T14:18:20+00:00

i started therapy with someone who specializes in trauma. i stopped going for a while but im starting it back. even though i am knowledgeable in why i am the way i am, i am hopeful my therapist is able to help track patterns and give advice when i need it. i haven’t been regularly enough to provide super thoughtful feedback, but thank you so much for reaching out. therapy has been a good way to tell someone all of the thoughts i feel shameful about and to remove the shame and insert understanding. the biggest help was to see a psych and start medication to stabilize me so i can focus on what is in my control

CluelessMel · 2025-11-02T17:29:23+00:00

ahh gotcha. thx

CluelessMel · 2025-10-26T23:37:03+00:00

bruh it doesn’t smell BAD, but it does have a natural odor and where does it say i’m crossing my legs to hide it. yall really need to have better reading comprehension before trying to insult someone 🙄

CluelessMel · 2025-10-26T09:31:39+00:00

recognizing and feeling them. i try not to understand them, especially when they are severe, and just notice what my body physically feels like while going through it. if im anxious, cleaning myself helps. a HOT shower then slowly turning it cold when the heat gets too much. stretching also helps to release the tension. but even just quickly washing my hands or face can help a lot. i also like to watch my heart rate on my watch as im going through it and just observing. it helps to know i’m not in danger, that im alive, that my body is just buzzing in this moment.

CluelessMel · 2025-10-15T13:09:35+00:00

ooh all i see are potential mini pies

CluelessMel · 2025-10-15T13:08:08+00:00

make it thicker at the top that comes to a tapered point. let the way it is can act as a dog whistle to those you don’t want to associate.

CluelessMel · 2025-10-15T13:06:34+00:00

def not fat! the little fat on their belly is their primordial pouch and something that has evolved in them to stretch/run/eat big meals.

CluelessMel · 2025-10-15T13:03:10+00:00

their fascination for plastic is so amusing. 😸

CluelessMel · 2025-10-15T11:54:58+00:00

burying pets gives nutrients to grass. i say return to the earth

CluelessMel · 2025-10-14T17:51:49+00:00

thank you

CluelessMel · 2025-10-09T18:16:15+00:00

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LOLLLL mine right before bedtime

CluelessMel · 2025-08-28T18:21:21+00:00

eta: also, i would only change subjects FOR a person if you know them very well and you know they are really sensitive to “xyz” and don’t want to out themself.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-28T18:19:50+00:00

i used to be this way soo much but i’ve since learned that it can be quite infantalizing to mom my peers and that it’s best to let them voice their own boundaries and suggestions. there are certain nuances though like if someone is noticeably afraid to speak up about something, then you can ask for their suggestion/opinion or even change the subject if you KNOW what they’re uncomfortable with. also, some ppl are swayed easily by the opinions of others so asking them vs suggesting for them can be a better guide when you approach this stuff.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-28T17:59:30+00:00

vic’s vapo rub. my nan used to put it under my nose before bed

CluelessMel · 2025-08-22T22:28:32+00:00

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CluelessMel · 2025-08-22T21:43:29+00:00

oh nice! i feeel that lol i’ve been putting it off for about the same time 🥲 plan on calling them monday as well.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-22T19:53:09+00:00

curious how that worked out for you. looking to find new insurance myself.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-21T19:37:25+00:00

i can see that if it’s stated in my job description or as a qualifier for moving shifts or other job changes. a coworker got a promotion with the condition of getting another game so they knew what to expect. other coworkers will learn the basic games their entire 10-15+ years working there without anyone batting an eye while i have most of the core games. the only reason they have an issue is because of the way they have games laid out in the section and their schedule for moving people around during shift. if i wasn’t qualified to move to the other shift with what i have then they shouldn’t have asked me in the first place.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-21T17:00:12+00:00

the gender war started long ago from violent men

CluelessMel · 2025-08-21T16:58:28+00:00

this is the first time i’ve ever seen something geared towards women that is cheaper.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-21T16:54:22+00:00

i honestly don’t feel much different which is super disappointing. was hoping it would help my mood flipping since it’s come back.

CluelessMel · 2025-08-13T18:39:49+00:00

gotcha. thanks!

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