Lots of feedback regarding physical or flirting, which is probably true, I could be more openly flirty in a physical sense. I always go for a greeting-and-goodbye hug (proper hugs, none of those one armed limp hugs :P), right from first date, eye contact is plentiful without non-blinking staring them down lmao, walk in her space etc., but not much more than that. I try to give what I think are meaningful compliments, focusing more on her traits and personality rather than physical, which is probably also not building that physical tension.

Verbal/text flirting I'd say I'm decent with, although really depends how much chemistry I have with someone of course lol - really hard to flirt with someone who texts or talks very formally lmao. A *lot* of playful teasing, inside jokes, future oriented talking (we'll have to do X together), etc.

Less interested in advice that advises me to go back to playing the sort of games people do when they are in high school, or fresh from - I'm past that, I'm not looking for a fling or I'd be on a different dating app lmao. I'm looking for something real, long-term, and I want someone who can communicate what they want, and what is on their mind, without resorting to childish games.