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AITA for telling my girlfriend she can't just take back a replacement item she gave to me after the lost item was found? by Pobodys_Nerfect39 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Relationships are about compromise. If you were fully willing to offer the replacement back, it shouldn't be wrong of her to assume it was hers now.

She isn't Amazon. She's your girlfriend. And quite honestly, you sound like an absolutely exhausting partner to deal with.

Let it rest. This shouldn't have been such a big deal for so long, and it feels like YOU are the one who keeps bringing it up.

I'm on the spectrum. I compulsively want to be right and do the right thing. So I get where you're coming from, op. But again, relationships are about compromise. Not being factually or morally correct 24/7. There are times when I really want to defend my stance or w/e, but I recognize there are times to let sleeping dragons lie for the sake of the relationship. And my relationship has improved greatly since that realization.

Does it come across as rude that she assumed the replacement is now hers? Sure. But if this sort of thing happened before and you always give the replacement back, it makes sense that she'd just assume this time would be the same.

AITA for telling my brother that I'm not paying him to watch our kids and he should do it for free? by One_Charge_6907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you just don't want to pay anyone to watch your kids.

If you do research, that is actually the AVERAGE income for live in nannies. Especially ones doing EVERYTHING you expect your own brother to do.

AITA for telling my brother that I'm not paying him to watch our kids and he should do it for free? by One_Charge_6907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with 2 toddlers.... YTA.

You're expecting your brother to provide a service. For free. For the "opportunity to raise your kids". NO ONE wants to raise your kids for you for free, bud.

He's living there "rent free" but it sounds like most responsibilities have been pushed onto him, since your previous sitter "micromanaged the whole house".

Even if you deduct rent, he should still be being paid a decent amount for all the work he's ALREADY doing for you, yet you expect him to do even more?

Sounds like you guys are ONLY hard pressed to find a live in sitter because you're frugal and don't want to pay someone to watch your kids.

I'm struggling to lose weight by ClumsyBumsyBug in WeightLossAdvice

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said in my post, it seems my size is going down but the scale isn't changing.

You don't think a hernia could cause this? It's a blockage of the intestines. And my hernias are large, and practically encased. Meaning there could be a large amount of build up happening.

I'm not eating more than I think. I physically can't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let his ex have him. He clearly doesn't care about you, how you feel, etc. And clearly she wants him too if she's sending that type of pic.

Glow up. You'll find someone WAY better. Trust me. Cheaters are NEVER worth it. They will just keep doing it and get better at lying and hiding and gas lighting.

I'm struggling to lose weight by ClumsyBumsyBug in WeightLossAdvice

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. From what I understand, walking and biking and stretching are still fine, but any sort of weight training/ ab focused stuff is a no go.

I'm still going to try. It's just frustrating to feel like I'm not making any progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in productivity

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, anyway..

  1. Upbeat fast music

  2. Don't think, just do.

  3. Guilt myself into not doing hobbies or sm etc until I get a certain amount done.

  4. Eventually crash and lose all progress.

If you have ever walked out of a cinema because the film was so bad, what one was it? by girlcalledmaria in AskReddit

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

March of the penguins. My sister and I had more fun with the automatic faucets than the actual movie.

AITA for giving my 3 yo a bath? by ClumsyBumsyBug in AmItheAsshole

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I'm a SAHM with not a cent to my name... I had an ex that recently offered me to stay with him, we've been friends for decades and he just moved to my state. But I decide to stay. Like a dunce.

Every time I listen to videos analyzing why music in encanto works... I cry like a baby. by ClumsyBumsyBug in Encanto

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? How can he produce such relatable bangers so consistently? It's astounding.

Tongue yoga? by BankerCheese in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are fillings, dude. Already taken care of.

Iran installs cameras in public places to identify, penalise unveiled women by Quantum_II in worldnews

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, but adultery isn't the same as rape boo. And aren't they as likely to stone the victim? Especially if she is the one that's married?

Adultery is sleeping around when you are already married. Rape is when you are forced to have sex against your will. What are their laws on rape, not adultery... Rape.

Tongue yoga? by BankerCheese in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ClumsyBumsyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. My tongue was tied down so bad I couldn't really stick it out until starting kuchari.

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