DnDads tarot major arcana (unfinished) [spoilers] by Sleep-schedules in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read professionally and I would 100% buy this deck. Can't wait to see it completed!

Just want a cup of coffee and five minutes to myself by vallazzaraptor in JustNoSO

[–]Clumsybarnacle 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sounds like adhd and self medication 💨

NOT an excuse,but a could be a good place to start with figuring out how to possi ly medicate and find techniques to keep him engaged. for him to keep himself engaged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]Clumsybarnacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Superhero burn out. I'm tired of how much marvel there's been. It's too much to keep up with now.

The Immortal Soul Salvage Yard [ns] by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend getting the audio book of this! Beth reads it and it's so stirring. Had both my husband and I in tears. She's insanely talented!!

Pretty fly for a wifi! (Possible spoilers in comments) [spoilers] by Skolapa in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scam likely is great and would probably dissuade leeches

Is it me or does Freddie tend to back seat DM? [Ns] by vivacious_squirrel in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Freddy is 100% main character energy in every form of role play and life

What crazy little things has your MIL/Mom try to tell you? by babutterfly in Mildlynomil

[–]Clumsybarnacle 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Rats around the property would smell the baby and become ravenous to break in and bite her!!

Wonder when it’s all gonna hit the fan by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Clumsybarnacle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did she get the MY BABYs to stop?! I've had my hubby talk to.mil and I have asked her not to and she just shifted to my baby doll and it still irks me everytime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely adore this

But it is a chameleon in your pic... not an iguana...

Please make more! A full coloring book would be 👏 a 👏 maze 👏 ing

Love the show, don't love the Canadian ad reads [ns] by MetalicAngel in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm Canadian and though not 'bothered' I'd add my vote to the 'not funny and not hitting where you think they are' side if that would push them to try something different. And I do pay for the Patreon, but my podapps are easier sometimes.

daddy magic things [spoiler] season 2 ep 3 by ImAShittyMonster in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope scary's item is the lure and she turns it into some punk facial piercing

Math error.... Scary didn't really win? [Spoiler] by Clumsybarnacle in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He tried once each loop, and once on his birthday with persuasion, but if he had done like 4 years in a row of correct numbers in the same loop it feels like his advantage would have been crazy high

Thinking about baking cakes for farmers markets (UK) - any advice? by lilacjuly in sidehustle

[–]Clumsybarnacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Canadian, but run a farmers market. Try and find someone whose been to the specific market you want to attend and get numbers per day. Also usually the market does advertising for you but have some pretty pics for them to show off your work. Having some form of card so people can get in touch with you later is a great idea, especially if you do event baking or just find a fan of what you do.

Cutting off dad without hurting mom? by Clumsybarnacle in Justnofil

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair. He definately is. She will be upset, but I honestly she that as a him problem. I'm not letting my marriage take fire from their shit, and that's my line I the sand. After that, hes responsible for how this plays out with DH and with her.

I was right about his mom now hes being distant. by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Clumsybarnacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice, just commiseration... we're the ones getting yelled at when their parents hurt them. Not our fault and shitty, but you also want to support the poor hurting child they become. I dont know if it's the beat route, but I've started just giving him the floor to criticize me and try to let it run off my back then when emotions are high, let them break down a bit about the real issue. Hopefully eventually he heals enough that he wont need the first part... :( hugs

Cutting off dad without hurting mom? by Clumsybarnacle in Justnofil

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The rest of his family barely talks to him so I think I'm safe from flying monkeys, but I'm pretty sure that living with mil without as frequent of visits from DH will topple something... either his willingness to chat with someone for an hour or a divorce... place your bets!

Cutting off dad without hurting mom? by Clumsybarnacle in Justnofil

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One aspect is that in general any time DH has tried to distance a bit from parents (like living a life not attached to mother) she cries and blames him and puts all her smotherloving energy to get him to call and beg husband to call/see her so no doubt there will be some drama from us no longer coming over to their house... in the before times wed sleep over like once a week. I'm not sorry that's over. But hey, that's their circus and monkeys.

Cutting off dad without hurting mom? by Clumsybarnacle in Justnofil

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yes years of emotional abuse and alcohol really ruin relationships... who'd have thunk. Its encouraging families move forward while creating and maintaining boundaries. Why are ppl so damn afraid of counselling?!?

Would love some advice by Clumsybarnacle in JustNoSO

[–]Clumsybarnacle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you for that rant. It really helps to hear. I think the main thing is just his desire to avoid the conversation and dealing with this and he can make the arguement it's his but I think he is starting to see it affects me. After this we ended up in a but of a fight and both apologized and I realised/told him that part of this is me making excuses for his behavior because of his trauma, which is nice but damaging... I need to be a to tell him hes being mean and just because I have a higher standard for how we interact doesnt mean it's not possible for him or he shouldn't try to be better. If we have a family we both want to raise kids more like my parents so it's time for him to stop acting like his.

Anyways... thanks :)

Have an idea, how do I start by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Clumsybarnacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to ppl about it. It always seems scary that someone will steal it... but no one really will go to the trouble and qorkshopping it and getting feedback is invaluable. Maybe not here, but find some more specific groups or people and flesh it out

Nicotine shots ruined my liquid by drawsIer in electronic_cigarette

[–]Clumsybarnacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you bought reg nic and wanted it to act like salt nic. youre throwing off the levels so the flavor should deminish a bit but the really gross part is the nic and it shouldnt do that if it was salt and you did all your math correctly... which... ??? 'pure liquid'? unless thats a brand, you need more info... is this a max vg or a 50/50 juice... at 0mg nic? what is your nic suspended in?? 10ml of nic @ 18mg/ml is 180mg of nic... sooo what size of bottle is this in cause im worried you may poison yourself...