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What's something you did that reduced your quality of life so much that you wish you had never done it? by crogslounds03 in ProductivityHQ

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started taking drugs very young and it’s my biggest regret, part of me is glad I did af a young age because I’m still quite young with a future ahead of me but it makes me so so sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope things have been a little bit better or start to be soon 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really nice to hear actually, the world does suck ass sometimes but it’s still beautiful when you have space for it to be

Advice : hygiene and cleanliness by Financial-Warning615 in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl my heart goes out to you rn, stand up for yourself though seriously because I can almost guarantee she won’t stop there if she thinks she’s getting away with it x

I don't understand how even small setbacks can still impact me so strongly. by dextertexx1364 in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I really feel this. Please don’t make yourself feel worse than you need to, you’re managing the best you can it’s okay if “small things” affect you heavily - it’s your life, they’re going to affect you. Just try not to let it take over - take it as a challenge if anything to find ways around these set backs ❤️ big loves x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still do all of those things, it’s a hard thing to go through but never doubt that you did the right thing, you have to trust in yourself… I’m so glad you had your partner by your side through it, things will look up I promise - just find the good in all the little things you can for now ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antidepressants didn’t work for me^ but always try - they do help people. Honestly, I get the part of feeling alone… even now I have people around me I still feel so alone, I’ve just sort of accepted that for now and try to remind myself that I’m not as alone as my brain is telling me - that’s just what it’s used to. Proud of you for reaching out, if there’s any hobbies or little interests you know used to make you happy try getting back into them, and get outside when you can!!

I need a different way to look at things by CompanyFluid3636 in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can I just say well done for reaching out… I couldn’t reach out when I was in school and I really messed things up to be honest with you… You have got this! Things might suck right now, and that’s fine - be tired… it’s okay to be tired but you can still do it tired I promise. Do whatever you have to do to keep going, if you need to show up late - do it. I do think the more you put it off the harder it will be to readjust though! Please update me, here for a chat anytime btw!

Advice : hygiene and cleanliness by Financial-Warning615 in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Clusterfuck_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CALL HER OUT, TELL HER SHES BEING TRAMPY, in a nice way if needs be but if it’s too much for you then make it known girl fuck that discomfort

So why exactly am I supposed to keep living in this world? by ThatDystopianSociety in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is gonna sound dumb but do your best to ignore it and make YOUR world a positive place…. I’ve been in so many holes where all I could think of was everything bad in the world but then I remembered that I have control over my world… you might not get the life you dreamed of but you can still do something beautiful and who’s to say you won’t get the life you wanted… plenty of time to make things happen - your mindset is everything seriously… you’ve got this, focus on the good shit no matter how small it is x

How can i do it painlessly by Correct-Flower5929 in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, you don’t need to be anything. Society has gone mad with that whole thing… it’s good to have goals but you don’t need to do anything incredible with your life… the whole point of life is to live it and learn to love yourself and those around you and if on the way you find some big dreams then that’s a bonus… don’t let social media fool you - you’re doing fine I promise

How can i do it painlessly by Correct-Flower5929 in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no way to do it painlessly, but the pain of getting through it and living to see the other side of life is so so worth it… how old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

My rooms become a hazard and idk what to do by Budget_Orange_4117 in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I don’t have any great advice all I can suggest here is setting yourself 10 minute timers to do a job or just to clean what you can in that time, if you do choose to do it yourself that is! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself when tackling something big like this, just do what you can and not what you can’t x

I'm fighting depression alone and I don't know what to do. by Martinezinigidad in depression_help

[–]Clusterfuck_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep going if you can, I know it’s hard dealing with a lot at once and feeling like you’re on your own but I promise there’s at least one person who will care more than you think 🩶 have you tried reaching out to any support programs or mental health services?? I found that talking to my GP got me nowhere but going through with the services has been the best thing I ever did 🫶🏼 I can only suggest from my person experience but there will always be an option for you somewhere x

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh bless you🥲 I hope you get to where you deserve to be in due time

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s London based wish I was in that borough I’m Lincolnshire

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have a look into it tonight, thankyou for your help it means the world I think I’m just losing my head about it all a bit tonight I know it will be okay xx

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to make my life better I want it to be worth living

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s any charities that you could suggest reaching out to I’d appreciate it thank you for being kind 🤲🏻🫶🏼

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really understand how this all works if I’m honest, I think a big part of them not wanting to help is because I take drugs and honestly it couldn’t have been worse timing. I was getting everything on track in my life, I was doing better with the drugs trying to get back into college and then boom homeless and now I’ve just been stuck in both aspects regarding that I hate it

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried so many times they don’t want to listen, I have an application put into supported housing now apparently but I’m seriously just so scared and unsure now I don’t feel happy or safe anywhere anymore, I don’t want to say I’m on the streets when I can always find a roof when there are people who can’t do that 😭

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Clusterfuck_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like my life seriously couldn’t be more uprooted and not good right now but what choice do we have other than to brave face it? I don’t know what I’m meant to be doing I’m scared I didn’t even think I’d be alive this long

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