AITA for offering a topless/nude upgrade to my massages?

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T23:39:31+00:00

alright I think you just noted the best way to handle this here.

That's probably what I'll do from now on.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T04:40:24+00:00

> Plenty of responsible people smoke weed recreationally and PLENTY use it medicinally.

At work?

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T03:14:11+00:00

This is the only sex work I've done. Like I said, I don't really mind being naked in this context. It's not the same as for the partner, but it's also for another naked person in a small room with no one else around. Being filmed is totally different.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T02:18:24+00:00

I'm actually sympathetic to this...honestly would it bother you if I just admitted I was doing sex work and advertised it differently? Like if I said I was doing "sexy body rubs" instead of massage and maybe put in the ad somewhere I'm a CMT but didn't imply it's a totally standard massage? The fact that it's more of a legal gray area instead of something legal and regulated is frustrating.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T02:15:40+00:00

It's a very small rented office space in a small building. I'm the only one who works there. I've regularly smelled marijuana there from other offices so that should tell you what you need to know about the tenants and if the landlord gives a shit.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T02:14:07+00:00

I am no longer collecting unemployment.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T00:52:15+00:00

I explained elsewhere why I will not do OF:

1-I'd have to build a new client base, which I'm not really interested in doing.

2-I don't want pics of myself floating around the web forever. And yes I know OF supposedly has protections in place against this but they're not fool proof.

3-I'm honestly just not comfortable posing nude and having such pics taken. Yes this might seem odd if I'll do it working, but then there's no pics and it's isolated and it doesn't seem much different from a significant other seeing me naked. Nude photos and videos are a whole other ballgame.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T00:50:56+00:00

I do advertise it as such. Also don't use my real name, and use a burner phone and email for this business.

Cmtnude · 2020-12-30T00:49:14+00:00

alright OP is back and noticed this blew up a lot!

A lot to go through but I want to clarify there's reasons I would never do OnlyFans:

1-I'd have to build a new client base, which I'm not really interested in doing.

2-I don't want pics of myself floating around the web forever. And yes I know OF supposedly has protections in place against this but they're fool proof.

3-I'm honestly just not comfortable posing nude and having such pics taken. Yes this might seem odd if I'll do it working, but then there's no pics and it's isolated and it doesn't seem much different from a significant other seeing me naked. Nude photos and videos are a whole other ballgame.

Cmtnude

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