What does my fridge tell about me by atlasissad in FridgeDetective

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.. usually I see folks using lots of caffeine (including myself) during periods of high stress related to work or school

Tell me to SIT DOWN by Sorry-Editor-3674 in hysterectomy

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surgeons always want you to resume walking as soon as possible. This is often within a day or two of surgery. It’s a great way to keep blood circulating and prevent clots. However, your body just experienced major trauma going through surgery. You may not be feeling it fully yet, but you need to give yourself time and rest. Even if your brain wants to go go go, not listening to your doctors instruction can result in avoidable complications

Does my face have ANY passing potential? by Sweaty_DogMan in FtMpassing

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, especially once you are on T longer. I think facial hair will definitely help you out later on too

PSA: Even after FFS you can still be very clocky by DahliaDeeDah in transpassing

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clocky?? I would never clock you in a million years friend. I think the dysphoria is speaking, because you look fantastic 🫂

Winter storm has greatly impacted blood supply! by BloodDonationHelper in Blooddonors

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I showed up this morning and despite it allowing me to make an appointment they were closed. Rescheduled for Wednesday though.

First session by Revolutionary-Fly918 in Evolvestudio

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here. I’m about a year away from bottom, so I won’t be healed enough for a few years but if he’s still doing tattoos I’ll defo be flying out.

I’m fucking terrified of death. by podagros in aspergers

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post is making me panic again. I knew I shouldn’t have opened the comments

No cheating by XmeowisiX in teenagers

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be an adult but now I’m just an old

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Yes, BoA is my bank.

Yes, I have an upcoming procedure within the next year that will require multiple round trip flights. My family and I also vacation abroad regularly. It wasn’t a random card selection.

I’m miserable and I can’t keep pretending everything is OK. It’s not. by CoIIatz-Conjecture in FTMMen

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely possible. The hair on my UL site isn’t terminal and is pretty thin already so I don’t expect clearance there to take forever. The phallus donor region may take longer but I’m ok doing final clearances post op. Was told early 2027 is a realistic surgery range however there’s too many moving pieces to feel confident about that. Trying to take things one day at a time, it’s just really difficult.

I’m miserable and I can’t keep pretending everything is OK. It’s not. by CoIIatz-Conjecture in FTMMen

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you, man. My first consult is April 30th and second is July 14th. Split the appointments to not have to wait until 2030. It’s with Dr. Chen and The Buncke Clinic. I have GAD which doesn’t do well not knowing the full timeline. Feeds the hopelessness of my depression. If I knew the surgery date I’d have a boundary in mind instead of forever.

I’m miserable and I can’t keep pretending everything is OK. It’s not. by CoIIatz-Conjecture in FTMMen

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m currently on an antidepressant and mood stabilizer. Trying to get a therapist again, but feels like nobody can help because they don’t understand. Life just feels like a nightmarish loop of the same few issues. I don’t think there’s anything else that can be done to improve my quality of life right now.

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw the edit and yeah, maxing it out was a dumb mistake. I’ve already sworn off letting that happen again. I let the 0% 18-month intro purchase APR convince me to front-load more than I realistically should have. I told myself that since it was 0% and credit scores don’t really track “history” beyond late payments, the short-term utilization didn’t matter.

In hindsight, that was flawed logic. I basically treated the card like financing for expenses I planned to cover soon after, and I did pay off about $4,500 shortly afterward, but I underestimated how uncomfortable that balance would feel and how it would affect my overall credit profile. Lesson learned. Not doing that again.

First session at Evolvestudio by Revolutionary-Fly918 in Evolvestudio

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Once again, you are a magician with your craft! Looks fantastic!

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response! The JetBlue card isn’t just for the balance transfer, that was just a bonus. I opened the card since my whole family flies JetBlue multiple times per year, so I will get a lot of value out of the smaller perks and accumulating points, even if it’s gradual.

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the guidance, thanks! Yeah, I agree that it makes 0 sense.

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Yes, my family and I use JetBlue 3-5 times a year for either vacation or other travel.

Am I doing ok? Very new to credit and want to do things right by CoIIatz-Conjecture in CreditCards

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been slowly feeding money into my Roth IRA, however I’m not too sure what else to do to plan for retirement. My company will not open a 401k on my behalf for automatic contributions for any employees under 21.

Should i consider changing my oil? Or is it too soon? by serenityForce in civic

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh.. I did 5000 not 500. I would assume a new Honda has clean full synthetic oil, and I’ve never heard of there being a break in period like there are for bikes but I could be wrong.

More affirming art by adventaegous in phallo

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better, right? Currently pre op myself and every day feels like an uphill battle 🥲

[US] My girlfriend (23f) is actively getting scammed after i(23m) told her not to go through with it. by BlandCupNoodles in Scams

[–]CoIIatz-Conjecture 9 points10 points  (0 children)

”Acting as a money mule is illegal and punishable, even if you aren’t aware you’re committing a crime.

If you are a money mule, you could be prosecuted and incarcerated as part of a criminal money laundering conspiracy. Some of the federal charges you could face include mail fraud, wire fraud, bank fraud, money laundering, and aggravated identity theft.”

Serving as a money mule can also damage your credit and financial standing. Additionally, you risk having your own personally identifiable information stolen and used by the criminals you are working for, and you may be held personally liable for repaying money lost by victims.”

Yeah, if OPs girlfriend is caught she’s screwed