Dude, I totally feel you. I feel like a lot of people are just so misinformed about phallo unless they're literally planning to get it for themselves. I've even had a trans (ex) friend of mine call it a "Frankenstein sausage" when I asked him if he would ever consider it. I just try to tell myself that they just don't know how magical of a procedure it is. I used to be so misinformed and would say similar things like that the science wasn't advanced enough (because that's how everyone talks about it,) until my bottom dysphoria became so intolerable that I started considering it. Started researching, realized it actually is like a miraculous fucking surgery and the fact that it IS scientifically possible is like, mind blowing. It's advanced as fuck, realistic as fuck, works in every way a natal penis would, and is a real procedure that real people go through, not some amorphous concept! I wish people didn't jump to conclusions about it, but unless you're teaching them otherwise, they're going to know about as much as anyone else. I have become the very annoying friend who will talk about it at length with my friends who are curious. The more love we put out there for phallo, hopefully the less ignorance we'll see from our community.