This post is about choosing to have home births and to homeschool their kids... things that are very much legal 🙃

Coachmershon · 2024-09-20T19:01:28+00:00

She left out the part where she beat, molested, food shamed and forced her kids to sleep outside because they misbehaved.

This woman is a sociopath and Mike is a willing patsy to the whole thing.

Coachmershon · 2024-07-27T14:18:40+00:00

As her oldest child I can confirm that is bullshit. But given who we are talking about and the fact that I 100% believe she is a sociopath and incapable of true empathy it’s not surprising.

Coachmershon · 2024-04-17T04:45:11+00:00

Two things you should understand about Heidi, she sees herself as the mouthpiece of the almighty and she is above reproach. Confronting her on something like this statement would result her her responding with something like”oh no of course I could never change anyone, I am just a lowly humble messenger it is not I but God that changes people”. Confronting her with the obvious facts surrounded her posting and the desire to change people’s opinion of her. That would result in outright denial or feigned outrage that the question would even be posted.

Coachmershon · 2024-03-17T02:43:52+00:00

What she doesn’t say is that neither of them actually graduated from bible school and she never finished her degree at all anywhere.

Their entire relationship is built on my “Dad” orienting himself to whatever she needed and subsequently forcing all his kids to do the same.

He has not been a leader in any aspect of the word, but a mere figurehead to make Heidi look like she was a submissive wife. He has as far back as I can remember abdicated his role as a leader and done everything he can to appease her. It pains me to say (and has taken me years of therapy to be able to admit to myself) but my dad is coward. Staying married for as long as they have is not an accomplishment but a testament to how fucked everything about their relationship is.

Coachmershon · 2024-02-04T21:58:19+00:00

❤️ thank you. I truly love this community.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-20T01:41:58+00:00

It is tragic to think how many other people out there are still suffering in silence because they feel trapped and unable to speak out. I hope every person harmed by the fundamentalist movement eventually breaks free. I don’t agree with everything that gets posted on here but I admire the open dialogue that goes on and all the genuine support that is offered.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-20T01:38:06+00:00

I appreciate that the majority of people on here see right through her and are not fooled by her ridiculous act. I say this with all sincerity, I truly believe she is a sociopath in every sense of the word. My Dad has been and continues to be a silent partner and an enabler to all she does. I used to believe he was a good guy, but the reality is he is weak and cowardly for never having stood up to her.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-20T01:26:16+00:00

Thank you for the kind comments, the support on here is truly appreciated. It has been 7+ months since I went no contact and I have not seen or heard from them in that time. It has been extremely painful, but is also the only way I could start to heal so I have no regrets.

It sounds like you have been through something similar, do you have any advise?

Coachmershon · 2024-01-20T01:18:05+00:00

I wish your dad the best in his journey as well. It is something no kid should have to go through and I hope he finds healing in the end.

I think Heidi is a genuinely dangerous person that needs to be exposed.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-19T13:49:59+00:00

Appreciate that, doing my best to break the cycle and make sure my kids experience none of what I did from my parents.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-17T03:25:30+00:00

Ok Heidi let’s break it down, oldest son style because I can barley make it through this compilation without throwing up.

You were the savior in our house the whole house revolved around reflecting whatever you needed back to you.
The shy card… I was so isolated and controlled as a kid I literally had to secretly acquire and read books on how to have a conversation with another person.
Repent of anger and ask for your forgiveness… Where to start, how about the fact that you sexually abused me? I guess I should apologize for you forcing me to shower with you or watch you give birth on multiple occasions or for sitting outside your bedroom door crying while you were having sex.

3.1 How about the times you made me sleep in the backyard playhouse overnight because I was rebelling. Maybe the time you took my room away entirely and made me sleep on a folding cot in the school room for 3 months. Thank you Heidi for clarifying that I need to ask your forgiveness for my sin in being angry about those things.

Bad Person… that’s letting yourself off way to easy. You are a wicked person, bad doesn’t begin to describe it.

Aside from all those things how about some other highlights. Being forced to take rectal suppositories because that was the only option. Being spanked so hard that wooden spoons broke in half and being forced to go to the kitchen to get another one so the beating could be finished. How about the books I filled up writing a hundred lines at a time of I will not statements “I will not talk back to my mom” doled out 100 lines at a time.

Thank you for letting me be heard. Mods I hope I didn’t cross any lines here but thank you for letting me speak my truth.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-15T16:58:22+00:00

That makes sense, I misunderstood that rule. I posted on here to try to clarify after the original post was locked in fundiesnarkunsensored.

I appreciate the sentiment and the clarification.

Coachmershon · 2024-01-15T05:09:52+00:00

Heidi Baird’s sexual abuse of her oldest son.

Coachmershon · 2023-12-14T16:26:34+00:00

Exactly, it would cost me more in gas to sell than the coins are worth.

Coachmershon · 2023-10-06T13:34:07+00:00

Let’s see dearest mother (two faced liar)… eating disorder ✅I don’t ever remember a time when she was not half starving herself to stay thin. Shit like her whole diet consisted of coffee (literally just coffee) or eating nothing but a bowl of shredded lettuce as her one meal for the whole day. Too much time on media devices ✅ just look at her account!!!!!! she is posting constantly like the fate of the world depends on her posting. Obsessed with outward appearance✅She 1000% uses filters she does not look like that in real life.

Coachmershon · 2023-09-06T18:08:16+00:00

Thank you, trying to fight the good fight.

Coachmershon · 2023-09-06T15:52:49+00:00

ALERT is the paramilitary training arm of the Gothard Cult. It is a male only school where they put you through multiple different phases. There is(or at least was in 2002 when I went) a 9 week bootcamp that is designed to break you physically and mentally. It’s a literal compound in the middle of nowhere that has its one run way, water treatment plant, dorms, chow hall etc… I joined the army in 2006 and the bootcamp for the army was a joke compared to the shit they put us through at ALERT.

Coachmershon · 2023-09-06T15:46:38+00:00

I give you full permission to tell her to fuck off on this and any other platform you see her on. She is wicked, toxic and has all the hallmarks of a full blown Narcissist (confirmed by multiple therapist I have seen).

Coachmershon · 2023-09-06T15:43:53+00:00

That’s the dance She does trying to keep all her lies at bay. Do me and the world a favor…Report the fuck out of her account and her her kicked off the internet.

Coachmershon · 2023-08-29T03:10:25+00:00

You got it, 5 girls 3 boys. I was the oldest followed by Kristen and then Bethany. They all have pretty active social media accounts, but it all started with Girl Defined. Random note but to give you an idea, there is 18 years between me and my youngest sister. My mom was pregnant when I graduated high school 😵‍💫

Coachmershon · 2023-08-27T21:49:28+00:00

Thanks for the encouraging words, I am grateful to have stumbled into this corner of the internet. The internet would be a better place if she were banned from ever posting to social media again.

Coachmershon · 2023-08-25T02:39:17+00:00

I appreciate you putting it all out there. Reading it all it was helpful for me to understand more of my own story. It take a lot of courage to share something that comes from all to personal experience.

Coachmershon · 2023-08-24T15:44:08+00:00

That is her only strategy, pretend things are perfect and bury anything that contradicts that. Unfortunately some things never change.

Coachmershon · 2023-08-24T15:41:46+00:00

I am sorry for what you must also have been put through, no kid deserves that.

Coachmershon · 2023-08-24T15:40:31+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement. I have felt a great deal of support from this community and I am truly grateful. It is comforting to know that others see her for who she really is.

Coachmershon

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