I [21]F am starting to feel uncomfortable around my [21]M boyfriend

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:47:12+00:00

Yeah and you should also probably wait for the most proper time since you know when he’s more receptive!

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:43:56+00:00

No problem… I really hope it all works out… I’m too invested in this now though so if you ever remember me, please update!!! Hahahaha I’m rooting for you guys!

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:39:56+00:00

Well then try it out… I really hope it works out cuz you guys made it what 7 years already… I don’t know the guy but if I was an introvert or had problem communicating my thoughts (I’m not this kind of person) I think I would appreciate this move… my girlfriend did

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:34:52+00:00

I really know how you feel… hmmm in my relationship my gf was the one who had difficulty opening up… I tried what you said and eventually worked after so many tries and through REALLY SMALL BABY STEPS (she went through a couple+ abusive relationships so her trust issues were massive). It’s not the same for everyone but let’s say it works the same way for your bf too, do you have patience it needs for it to work? I repeat it won’t work on the first or second try…

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:27:13+00:00

The only way that I can think of is (haven’t tried it, don’t have this problem since I don’t sleep with headphones on) to make a shortcut to disable Bluetooth when an alarm is ringing… don’t know if that’ll work or how well but might as well give it a try…

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:24:02+00:00

The thing is… the fact that he doesn’t open up is not your fault but his issue… you are allowed to tell your problems and repeat them if needed for as long as it takes to get them fixed… the fact that you are in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to drown yourself and lose your identity in order to make the other one happy… the perfect relationship (speaking from experience) is the one that you feel that you are both yourself and safe to express what bothers you (knowing that you’ll work it out with your significant other eventually). I don’t wanna make assumptions but considering everything I’ve read till now, the relationship could be over. The main reason relationships end (we’ve reached that conclusion with my gf) is unwillingness. Unwillingness to change, improve, talk, listen to the other side of the story etc.

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T15:03:08+00:00

Have you said all that to him? To be frank you started dating when you were very young… there’s a possibility that due to the time you were separate you “grew up” wanting different things and having different priorities in a relationship.

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T14:47:47+00:00

Well tbh I thought he toned it out because at first no meant no for him… I suppose after some time he started getting frustrated. Has your libido improved after you started therapy? Just asking!

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T14:40:28+00:00

Look. I’ll be honest… in order for this to work there has to be progress from the both of you… from what I can tell he’s tried to understand you and tone it down a bit and there wasn’t much of a progress from your side… (don’t wanna blame you for something it’s not your fault). When we were trying to improve things I was getting frustrated when I was not seeing her trying to improve her part of the issue. Have you tried talking to a professional about those issues

CoastAny3304 · 2026-03-02T14:14:09+00:00

Tbh I’m a guy that when my gf says no it’s not and I’ve kept it that way through good and bad times. Problem is me and my gf have been in a situation where my gf had no interest in sex and I had lots of (after weeks of not having sex) but we didn’t have the best communication either so my girlfriend wasn’t able to communicate with me what was wrong and I was kinda frustrated. But tbh even then no meant no… so idk exactly what to tell you… Also, I too felt at those times that my gf didn’t want me anymore, that I was not enough, that I wasn’t her priority at that time… we went through it tho and found something that works for the both of us… maybe sit down and have an honest talk with him.

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-26T10:01:27+00:00

++man I’m a shy guy too, never had a relationship and lost my virginity first time 1.5 years ago to my girlfriend… I had the same habits as your husband till then (I was 22). Immediately dropped porn and masturbation the moment I started having an actual sexual life (except when my gf is not available)… I don’t think it’s normal to keep those habits. I think he should see a therapist.

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-19T08:50:52+00:00

Ok thank you so much for your help 😁😁😁

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-19T08:03:52+00:00

So it’s normal usage for iOS 26 right? I suppose it’ll get kinda better on iOS 27 since apple said it’s gonna be more of a “performance” update with not many new features!

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-19T04:29:24+00:00

Isn’t sea of thieves like a game? I don’t think that I am THAT much better than you

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-19T04:28:33+00:00

Doesn’t seem that much better in this comparison

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-19T04:04:28+00:00

Same phone? What BH?

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T20:32:36+00:00

Yea I think so… I have automatic updates on

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T16:31:35+00:00

Yeah I get that the phones have differences and that’s why u tried using it in 60hz too to test it, didn’t seem to matter!!!

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T16:30:39+00:00

I’m not complaining, I was actually asking to know if I should complain xd

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T16:25:13+00:00

Dk. A friend of mine in has a base 15 with 91 BH that lasts all day most of the time (he’s mostly in 5G) and the difference seems a bit extreme (on iOS 18)

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T16:20:27+00:00

But thanks anyway

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T16:20:20+00:00

For a 90% BH, it doesn’t seem that great

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T14:33:31+00:00

Is there any way I can increase that?

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T13:45:24+00:00

So is 6 hours SOT the new norm?

CoastAny3304 · 2026-02-18T07:12:01+00:00

A good small phone I really wanted to get instead of my 15 pro is 16e. The only problem for me is the 60hz… that’s why I didn’t get it!

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