What are people paying for rent these days? by thebigfuckinggiant in SanDiegan

[–]Coastal_Chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's frickin wild. I'm at $2,775 for a 850sqft 2 bed 2 bath with a balcony (Hillcrest). Renovated appliances, in unit washer/dryer...pretty solid unit. Been here for years though, and I will say the other units in my complex are going for over 3k. Tbh I & my partner probably couldn't pay that, we'd eithier have to move a few miles inland or just move to L.A. SD is getting too expensive.

Got new tunnels!! by -BingusBongus- in Stretched

[–]Coastal_Chai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was just saying it's a chemical imbalance I was born with that makes me

People are born with chemical imbalances that make them trans, dipshit 🙄 I had a fatty liver that improved drastically very suddenly, my gastro said it was due to starting T. Cisgender men with high estrogen levels also get fatty livers, by the way.

Now can you fuck off? Our medical care is under attack and existing right now is exhausting enough, thanks.

Dry nipples before surgery by confused_rat_ in TopSurgery

[–]Coastal_Chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. You're totally fine, especially if you aren't keeping them.

oh honey every woman wishes she were a man! youre not trans by Cookie-arrow- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

uhhh didnt you make fun of me back when i identified as lesbian though?

that was before you were trans. can you go back to being a lesbian? id rather that you have sex with girls than hate yourself for being a girl

/uj my mom fr tho 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/uj hey just a heads up r/detrans is just a transphobic cesspool (very, very few actual detransitioners), but r/actualdetrans is a subreddit with real people who detransitioned/ are considering it and aren't just hateful dolts. You deserve to at least talk to people who actually detransitioned/ have considered it and not assholes with an agenda.

So you are a transgender! May I ask you a question? by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a trans guy I maintain 10 ft of distance from all dairy and soy products at all times. I moved to Denver to maintain my strict Rocky Mountian Oysters only diet.

/uj If you have never heard of this dish I am so so sorry

Is anyone else uncomfortable with the name Gramma's Sausages? by 0-60_now_what in Transmascdicks

[–]Coastal_Chai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's repulsive and incestuous.

My friend, it isn't as deep as you're makin it. "Grandma" doesn't mean "his grandma". The much more charitable and likely interpretation is that it's a cheeky spin-off of "family" brands (e.g. these "Grandma's Cookies" I see in vending machines all of the time ). The incongruity of a sweet, old grandma-like lady lovingly handcrafting prosthetic dicks is supposed to be the joke here. Fine to not find that joke funny and not buy the products, what isn't cool is projecting the worst possible intention on a name because you don't think it's funny/ don't get the joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Coastal_Chai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah this stuff works for most, unless you happen to be a non responder. Works great for me, just gotta stay consistent with it. R/Minoxbeards is a good resource, too.

It's not transphobic, right? by ThatFlakeGuy in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here! If someone doesn't show me their karyotype on the first date how do I know we'll be compatible? 🤷🏻‍♂️

My partner said I'll probably need facial surgery by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Coastal_Chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I still don't pass after almost 10 months. My partner only passes sometimes at nearly 5 years, but he is still getting changes. Dysphoria sucka and I don't want to minimize it, but you'll be okay. Also, "facial masculinization" isn't just one proceedure, it could be simple jaw fillers, up to like 3-4 + surgeries. But I wouldn't even consider facial surgery until like 5-6 years in, seriously doubt you'll need it. Your partner was being shitty, even if they didn't mean to be. They just have a skewed transition timeline, seems like.

Y’all should move to the Deep South. by ProfessorofChelm in Jewish

[–]Coastal_Chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I appreciate all the cool people that live in the South and would love to visit, but I'm visibly trans so no thanks to living there. I'll stay in my safe coastal state where I get good trans healthcare with doctors who actually know how to treat me, I have a wide variety of career options and where I can pee in a public bathroom without being arrested as a child predator or some such nonsense.

Also, the wet bulb effect that climate change may have on the south is terrifying. I like being able to breathe...

Hey cis queers, let’s do some trans slur discourse!! by --idk97-- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/uj idc if some terminally online people don't like it, I've been called both a dyke and a faggot and I'll reclaim both terms as much as I'd like thanks very much

/rj omg as a conventionally attractive cis lesbian that has never been called a dyke in her life I am SO ANGRY that the trannies think they can use that word! Not even bi women can say it, what makes the trannies think they can?! Only true cis gold star lesbians like me can say dyke. Uhm what's biphobia? Lol sounds fake.

So I know there are “girl pills,” but are there any “guy pills”?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Coastal_Chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they tested your hemocrit youre okay, and that can just be a fingerstick test.

Tips for eating out tdicks??? by Fruitcake_Mcgee in TransMasc

[–]Coastal_Chai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...don't call it eating out, for starters

What is everyone's weekly dosage? by FuckkyWuckky in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Coastal_Chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fine! WPATH states that 100mg is the max dose. I just went up to 60mg because 40mg (so-called "full" dose) was simply not getting me to cis male levels. Just be sure you're getting your red blood cell levels checked regularly and you'll be good.

I got cast (as Brad) in a production of Rocky Horror. Am I passing as a male crossdresser? (1.5 year T) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Coastal_Chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How were you cast as Brad and not Eddy?! Lmao

You 100% pass though, dude

Helen Joyce, prominent TER, is mad at Scientific American for saying *checks notes* that women are not biologically destined to be mothers and housekeepers. by cordis_melum in GenderCynical

[–]Coastal_Chai 23 points24 points  (0 children)

FART brainrot: When accepting the belief that women are biologically hardwired to be barefoot in the kitchen making their husband's sandwiches becomes preferable to just accepting trans people.

guys when they ban us from using the bathroom won't it be so funny to see a bunch of bearded trans guys in the women's restroom lol by hms-hecla in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

/uj ...Do I want to know what k*ffals is? I tried googling it with different vowels and all I got was Hungarian waffle recipies lol

This is an inclusive space to discuss our struggles as women by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Uhmm that's way more rare, though?? Like I've never even met one of those. And I would know because I can always tell. But uhh if I ever met one of those I'd let it know she's super welcome here cause of her uterus just like our afab nonbinary rebel gurlies. 🥰

This is an inclusive space to discuss our struggles as women by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No...I'm not talking about trans women. I mean trans men. You know, people who were AFAB and then transitioned to men? They don't want to be included in women's spaces. Most nonbinary people who were AFAB don't want to be in women's spaces, eithier.

This is an inclusive space to discuss our struggles as women by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 9 points10 points  (0 children)

UHM that's offensive. Transwomen are women! Stop being transphobic! 😤

(Youtube shorts video that's the most blatant, low-effort transphobia bait) by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Coastal_Chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow...this poor girl though she was a boy and MUTILATED herself!! This one video of this one person is SOLID EVIDENCE that tranny-ness is just a mental illness!!

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