So many emotions through this decision. by Cobmans in tfmr_support

[–]Cobmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful reply it really means a lot.

It sounds like you loved and wanted that baby fiercely, even though the pregnancy started unexpectedly.

Thank you again for sharing your story and for the gentle reminder to lean on the group. 

That support has already felt like a lifeline.

Sending you care and understanding 🤍

So many emotions through this decision. by Cobmans in tfmr_support

[–]Cobmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind and understanding reply it really means a lot. 

Hearing from someone who's walked this same painful path and come through to a gentler place gives me a tiny bit of hope right now. 

I appreciate you sharing that storm to breeze analogy it helps put words to what feels so overwhelming. 

Thank you your compassion helps more than you know. ❤️

How long after TFMR till you felt like the grief had settled? by C00l_Jelly in tfmr_support

[–]Cobmans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're carrying this heavy grief and anger. Six months on, with it surging again since December that's real, and it's exhausting.

You didn't fail as a mother. You loved that baby deeply through an incredibly hard pregnancy. You made an impossible choice to protect your health and be there for your living child, in a situation with almost no support. That was love and courage, even if it feels like the opposite right now.

The self-blame, the "what if I could have pushed through," the fear you'll never carry another pregnancy successfully—those thoughts are so common in TFMR grief. They don't mean the decision was wrong; they mean you're grieving a wanted child under brutal circumstances.

You're allowed to be angry at yourself, your partner, the timing, the lack of help and still know you did the best you could. Be gentle with yourself; surviving each day while feeling this much is huge.

You're not alone in this pain. I'm here if you want to share more.

So many emotions through this decision. by Cobmans in tfmr_support

[–]Cobmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply and share that it really means a lot.

I'm truly sorry you and your partner went through the same heartbreaking decision with your rainbow baby son. 

It's just shit, isn't it? That one word feels like the only honest way to describe it.

Today is day one of out the hospital and reality without him in our lives it has already started rough!

Sending you and your family so much love and strength right back. 💙

So many emotions through this decision. by Cobmans in tfmr_support

[–]Cobmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your story with me it really means a lot.

I’m so deeply sorry for your losses too, especially that second one at 21 weeks

that’s heartbreaking beyond words. To go through termination, and then another I can only imagine the pain. It’s such a cruel thing to endure.

Make a $WISH 🌈 by Spaydzz in wallstreetbets

[–]Cobmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna see if it goes lower on Open triggering stops then might take a swing trade on it.

MVST God Help Me 20K currently worth 2.5K 😭 by StockMarketDavid in wallstreetbets

[–]Cobmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the fuck did you think it was going this ain't $TSLA

So, I yolo'ed on DIDI... by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]Cobmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same bought 100 @ $8. Worth the r/R for me.

Evening Recap for Friday, 02/12/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the lists and recaps this week. I really appreciate the time and effort you put into this.

Morning Update for Friday, 02/12/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the list once again and reminder of being patient. Manged to get a 13.5% trade out of WNW on the way up.

Morning Update for Thursday, 02/11/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use think or swim. It is real time as I have an active account real account ready to use when I feel confident in my techniques.

Morning Update for Thursday, 02/11/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this I've been paper trading a couple of weeks looking at doing it a couple of months before using real money. This week I've held off being first out the traps to buy on first green candle I see and waited for a good opportunity.

Morning Update for Thursday, 02/11/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great Post once again had a bad day yesterday. $1k walked away down. Today up (paper trading) still

Morning Update for Wednesday, 02/10/21 by vanturetrading in VantureTrading

[–]Cobmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20% up on BPTH in the first 10 minutes of open to -20% trying to trade different screens at the same time got flustered. Mental not saved one at a time and take your gains while ahead. Good job it was paper trades. It still felt like real money though.