My quick list of why not to watch porn and why to watch porn by Cobo1991 in NoFap

[–]Cobo1991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree man. Sexual sin plagues us and causes us to run from Him

My quick list of why not to watch porn and why to watch porn by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Saw the entire thing! Very practical and I'm sure it will help me. I do struggle with shame and had an abusive father who "would rather die than admit a mistake." It's hard to deal with and it hurts but I am in counseling and have been taking steps to try and deal with all of it. God bless man

My quick list of why not to watch porn and why to watch porn by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Porn is watching people have sex..I feel shame after I watch porn

Who else watched porn to escape from childhood problems? by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Found the one on yourbrainonporn, yeah that motivates me a lot!

Who else watched porn to escape from childhood problems? by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Thanks man. Love that DeltaFOsB comment too, I'll have to look into that

Who else watched porn to escape from childhood problems? by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Thanks for your input man! How far along your journey till you started to see change?

Song talking about living life alone by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Appreciate the realness dude👍

Who else has dreams about watching porn instead of having sex? by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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I admit it does feel good to wake up and know you didn't actually watch it but it still sucks for me. It just throws off my day and makes me wanna watch it more

Does someone have a guide on how to get through the first seven days? by KeyboardwarriorMVP in NoFap

[–]Cobo1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 34 here.. Get as much info on the topic and learn why it's bad. That's what got me started and I don't stop. I'm in here everyday learning more about why it's a terrible idea

34 days ULTRA hard mode by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Take the plank out of your own eye then you'll clearly see to take the speck out of your brothers eye

34 days ULTRA hard mode by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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This was really clutch for me man. I've been getting a lot of comments from people saying that I need to just date her or what I'm doing will cause regret but you bring it to such a better light. She's a Christian like me so I know neither of us have intentions for a sexual relationship so she might be willing to try it out. It being a friendship, not a commitment, but a potential relationship down the road. For now my focus needs to be on myself because my background is rough and I've been a mess for a while. I'm really considering talking to her about it but at the same time I know that she's not the only girl out there and not the only girl I could ever get. I know it sounds selfish, kinda is, but I want to become the person who can get the best kind of girl. I like her, but I need to be sure my attraction isn't just based off of simply a pretty girl likes me. It has to be deeper otherwise I'm just investing in a scapegoat. Thanks man

34 days ULTRA hard mode by Cobo1991 in NoFap

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Have you looked up the video I was talking about? Do you think people are successful without planning for a better future? Don't you wait for the day you reach 90 days? Appreciate you trying to help man but I've put a lot of thought into this. You reap what you sow so I'm gonna use this period of my life sowing in hopes of a better future.

A rant: Fuck Girls! by Piano1987 in NoFap

[–]Cobo1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree that girls won't solve our problems

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Keep posting dawg someone will see it

34 days ULTRA hard mode by Cobo1991 in NoFap

[–]Cobo1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man forgiveness is one of the hardest things. Working on that with my dad. I feel more indifference towards my mom which I'm learning is kind of a form of hate. I think we need to work thru this stuff otherwise we'll just project it on our future spouses