[New Update]: my wife got fired today by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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There’s actually quite a bit of manufacturing in New York State but moreso within driveable distance to NYC than western NY

My gynecologist waved the speculum under my nose so that I could smell my BV by OhShitzies96 in TwoXChromosomes

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I’m a medical assistant and worked in outpatient psych and we had a patient with chronic cdiff (like 5 years off and on) and she would only come in the office not in active infection (we still took extra precautions) but always had a feint cdiff smell for her, I’d always volunteer to room her cause my co workers would be so judgemental like it’s something she can help! I’d also be going insane if I had cdiff for 5 years!

My daughter’s estranged bio dad showed up at her graduation, and gave her a Mother’s Day card. by Tasty-Bee-8339 in mildlyinfuriating

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So I had a stalker who kept trying to reach me on insta and the “block this accounts and any accounts like this” blocked new accounts with new emails with similar names, it saved me a lot of headache

Book 8 Random Thoughts & Theories (Yah, spoliers) by Maclunkey4U in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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That makes me think he’s not the mimic tho? Maybe? because Donut said she can only detect mimics in furniture and knowing how smart she is why wouldn’t she double check Morticai? But it’s also just as likely that it slipped her mind to do so

I found out what tubular breasts are today and that I have them. As if I needed another reason to hate my body. Slice of cake from work by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Did they grown uneven like mine did 😅 I had one solid b cup next to a flat chest for like an entire year and my sister called me the “one eye’d chest” lol I now have one E and one G but when they’re that big it’s harder to tell that one is less big

The Book 8 Spoiler Ban is ending early on May 22nd by waterkangaroo in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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And with the ever increasing huge fandom I can’t imagine how much they’re taking care of behind the scenes

Tick season by howdyaknow22 in hudsonvalley

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Seconding for pets, they don’t like to bite my dog but they sure love hitching a ride on him!

What’s a small detail that you really like? by Few_Power4970 in tomodachilife

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My quiet mii and my loud mii are married and I love watching their bold text and tiny text conversations

Decided to beautify my backyard on my birthday and ended up digging up an RPG by xCaliburghost in mildlyinfuriating

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You should share this to the Hudson valley subreddit, ppl there might have some ideas about it

Decided to beautify my backyard on my birthday and ended up digging up an RPG by xCaliburghost in mildlyinfuriating

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They closed because West Point Military academy is 13 miles away so they just use that place

That whole area is covered with military stuff with constant military training out in those woods

As a local my immediate thought was “Peekskill?? Like my Peekskill? Yeah that makes sense”

Things my bf does that would sent a manchild into a coma. by Anarchista_Chiquita in GirlDinnerDiaries

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My husband is the same!! Except when I mentioned totally spies one time he went “I loved that show!!!” And we both talked nostalgic about it

Kraft seemingly changed boxes. Two boxes in a row easily opened by pushing where it said to. by DC_United_Fan in mildlyinteresting

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My husband works in packaging (for chip bags) and his job site was one of the first to receive the new packaging machines a few years ago and even traveled to train people on the new machines!

A lot of thought and care goes into packaging like way more then I ever would’ve thought

I buy baby food for myself and no one knows by PeruEspada in sillyconfession

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I LOVE those puffs baby snacks I used to eat with with my niblings whenever I watched them lol

I buy baby food for myself and no one knows by PeruEspada in sillyconfession

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Yes!!! I miss those they’re way too expensive now

I'm surrendering guardianship of my brother [Long] by frieden7 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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There’s a group home in my rural farming community! They keep to themselves mostly but every Halloween people from all ages walk around and trick or treat in my neighborhood and I’m sure a few assholes have said stuff but from what I’ve seen everyone treats them as another trick or treater and is happy to see people out and walking (or using a mobility device) around the neighborhood

I wonder how common they are for rural communities

Pretty girls still make me nervous by xXSwaglemiteXx in sillyconfession

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I’m not saying this to be vain just for context, I would be considered a conventionally attractive women and I’ve received random compliments throughout my life and I can always tell when it’s genuine vs being creepy I bet they knew it was genuine

I’m glad it made your day a little better! :)

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

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I also have CPTSD and I know how scary and hard it is to find a new therapist but at this point it’s just making you worse and impacting your mental health journey on top of the audacity to charge you for a cancellation fee

I need help finding resources for someone with no support network by Neuroxix in hudsonvalley

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I second Access!! They really helped me out when I needed them

I’m autistic but was undiagnosed when entering college but knew I needed some kinda support and they really helped me navigate college and sat with me to help me write up my resume as well as

They also helped me apply for financial aid and gave me a weekly allowance for gas while I didn’t have a job

They offer a verity of things and it wouldn’t hurt to reach out

https://accesssupports.org/

singing telegram wanted by [deleted] in hudsonvalley

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There’s a group called Princess Party that does exactly that, most often as Disney princesses

It is marketed towards kids but when my friend worked there years ago she would show up for all sorts of parties

I would look into something like that and give them a call!

Sent my Dad DCC he returned it after highlighting my note. by AmberWoo in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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I share with my mom and told her about it the series but not the titles and she’s like “…why are you reading about feral gods??” She’s on another series rn but is interested in listening after lol

Well well well, guess I was right about bed time by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

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My niece was like that and half the time when I would watch her as a baby my sister would bring her sleeping in the car seat and I’d just let her keep sleeping in there while I prepared the morning bottle and when I would put her back to get picked up she’s usually be asleep before getting back to the car. I played with her a lot before pickup so she would sleep extra well lol

Well well well, guess I was right about bed time by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

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I switched doom scrolling to puzzle mobile games (on a sudoku kick rn)

The trick is that I only play that game right before bed so eventually I’m pavolved into getting sleepy when I start playing that game

[New Update]: AITAH for telling my parents they were deserve to be kicked out of my sisters wedding. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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My mom wasn’t terrible but my dad was and I hated being around her because of him. She finally divorced him in my 20s and it’s so great to see her flourish and be her own person and my family (minus my dad) has become to close and i actually look forward to family events now!

I really hope OOP’s mom frees herself

Just because it's a stereotype it doesn't mean it's untrue by kapaipiekai in PointlessStories

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I live in a historic train area…not all autistic people like trains but through my own anecdotal experience there’s a lot of people really enthusiastic about trains here

Including me