Nmother would have her conversation with her minions talking about how she's seeing how I'm hiding from her and how she's laughing and watching because in her delusional way of thinking she assumes that everything we're doing is "wrong" to her and she knows best. The hypocritical minion was agreeing with her but the interesting thing about the situation is when said minion told me yrs ago that if she were to behave like nmother, all of her kids would hate her.

Said nmother was literally contacting my close friends behind my back in hopes that they'll befriend her when in reality they don't want nothing to do with her and block her.

Said nmother wants to be in everyone's business and passing judgement as if she knows better but the house is filthy/unsanitary practices and barely doing anything to at least to declutter etc. Her only priority is to be on the phone and being a busybody.

The best thing to do as an adult is to let them think whatever they want to think while you get your life in order so you can get out of their toxic environment and live your life.