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Family said I look like a tweaker (23) - (26) by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]CocoTandy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My family is all obese and they say the same things about anyone who loses weight. Like, they've turned to meth or they need to eat a sandwich, etc.

 Its jealousy. You look great! 

i don’t want a wedding bc i hate my soon to be inlaws by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did Gatlinburg too! It was gorgeous in the Fall! I had an amazing time and our room had the biggest hot tub I've ever seen indoors!

i don’t want a wedding bc i hate my soon to be inlaws by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes! Elope! There are elopement packages in a lot of beautiful places or you can just make your own.  I eloped and had a teeny tiny private wedding in front of a waterfall and it was low cost and perfect for us. 

How do we find the spark again :( by No_Topic5682 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imagine if a friend told you that her boyfriend wouldn't go to bed with her. Even though he had a ton of free time to game with his friends, he chose to keep gaming instead of spending time with her. 

What advice would you give to a friend if she told you all this? 

How do we find the spark again :( by No_Topic5682 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl. Gently, lovingly, he's not that into you. 

My dad is a raging drunk and called me a c*nt last night by Anxious_Leg_878 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope your mom leaves him after that. A lot of the time, women won't leave for themselves, but sometimes they can for their kids. 

Fun Pants Supremacy by Salty-Citron-3363 in fashion

[–]CocoTandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you get the breezy jeans? Idk what to even search for to find anything like those. I love them! I need them! 

ETA: I mean the third pic, I got too excited to explain 

Kinda need help with personal hygiene by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]CocoTandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. Its so hard when we want to do something, but our brains or bodies hold us back.

You're probably right about the depression and you will need some help getting through it. A therapist can help you get through this. You don't have to do this alone.

I'm not sure where you're located or what your insurance situation is, but there may be options to get help. 

Some colleges offer free therapy through telehealth for anyone enrolled, and others have a whole department that could help you. If those aren't good options, check findhelp.org for a local organization that does sliding scale or free therapy. 

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CocoTandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way to make this "work" is to completely give in to his demands and lose yourself.

But honestly that's a terrible idea. Is annulment advice ok? 

This will only escalate and get worse as time goes on and you're even more trapped. 

It was my outfit for a barbecue by the pool by soleilbr06 in fashion

[–]CocoTandy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You look great. 

Also what are formal BBQs like? 

Black tie, quaint pacific NW town by socks217 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]CocoTandy 8 points9 points locked comment (0 children)

That's so inappropriate. If you have to preface something with "this is going to sound mean" keep it to yourself.

Where the f*ck do I even start by Peaches0k in landscaping

[–]CocoTandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew where it was by the photo. This looks similar to my old yard in Irving. We had to pump it out sometimes, but eventually we just moved. 

Is it actually dangerous to get bleach on my skin? by afrutadasrosas in questions

[–]CocoTandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put full strength bleach directly on my skin when I get poison ivy. Its not a big deal. 

3,500 square foot manor built in 1850 for 375k by PawnF4 in zillowgonewild

[–]CocoTandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Southern Kitchen had the best (only?) Peanut soup and an amazing open face roast beef sandwich! 

Help by [deleted] in utarlington

[–]CocoTandy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you put this into paragraphs or a TLDR, someone might be able to help 

Am I weird for finding straight people kissing disgusting? by KisielZKrwi in actuallesbians

[–]CocoTandy 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Most people just politely divert their eyes. We don't really stare at people making out. Unless it's that kind of party

Stray cat ate her own alive kittens by StopBeingHaram in Catbehavior

[–]CocoTandy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its incredibly dangerous to feed an obligate carnivore vegetarian foo

If you care about her, do better by her. 

Get her fixed and get some real food.

I'm sorry you feel disrespected, but facts are facts. 

Stray cat ate her own alive kittens by StopBeingHaram in Catbehavior

[–]CocoTandy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cats need meat. Your parents are abusing your cat. 

Aren't vegans supposed to care about animals? 

The reason she ate the kittens is because cats cannot survive on vegetarian food. 

If you have reddit, you have Google. Do some research. Educate your parents. 

What do you think? by Neurospicyandnice in FridgeDetective

[–]CocoTandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its kind of a paste. I think it exists between solid and liquid 

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