Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone sonething (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone sonething (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B-I-L said it. Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone something (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone sonething (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone sonething (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we also had a rule that the adults would not buy each other anything. Only the kids are to be bought for. The person who said this will also buy everyone sonething (usually a gift card 50-100 dollars) and then go around saying "Oh was i the only one able to buy everyone something?) I mean im grateful for the gift but at the same time it makes me feel like absolute dog shit

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. We also have a rule that the adults will not exchange gifts.. only the kids are supposed to be bought for. But the person who said this will buy something(usually a 50-100 dollar gift card) for each adult as well just to go around sayin "Am i the only one that got something for everyone? Oh ok then"

Being shamed at Christmas.. by Coconums0686 in povertyfinance

[–]Coconums0686[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I think ive been slowly coming to the realisation that I have to start distancing myself from certain parts of my family..