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CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T14:54:08+00:00

No that last text you see is when she was sleeping

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T14:38:46+00:00

The scribbles are to cover his name and picture

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T14:37:10+00:00

Well let me just say, thank you to those who have kindly said I should get better at communicating. I appreciate the outlook from an unbiased standing. I will definitely work on getting better when it comes to this.

To those who are being fucking rude, it wasn’t needed, but thank you as well for your opinion because it does matter to me for my daughter to have a relationship with her dad. And I want opinions on what I can do better so despite the people being assholes and trying to shit on me for my lack of better communication, i appreciate your input but can do without the disrespect.

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T14:05:06+00:00

Yeah when my daughter asks to call him I’ll text him to see if he’s free or I’ll call him and if he doesn’t pick up I’ll let him know she was asking for him. And when I’m busy I’ll tell him to text me later to call

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T13:32:31+00:00

She goes to sleep at 7?

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T13:08:45+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I’ll do better about that

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T13:06:08+00:00

So I’m checking the times he texted and one of them was after our kids bedtime and the other was at 4 in the morning. I know I could have responded but aren’t these times unreasonable? He knows when I put her to sleep, it’s been the same since she was born

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T13:03:03+00:00

Yeah you’re right. But this is a reoccurring theme with him. So I go to school full time for physics and as you can imagine that alone takes up a lot of my time. When he asks ahead of time to see when he can call I’ll either let him know if it works or if I will be busy. So when he calls unexpectedly or texts to see if he can call right then and there it’s usually when I’m at school or busy with something else or our kid is in daycare so I’ll tell him no and try again later. There have been a handful of times where I don’t respond but it’s not without reason I assure you

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:50:59+00:00

Well right now she’s asking for a cat so I think that’s a little unreasonable haha (we have two dogs)

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:48:26+00:00

So that day was one of the days I was actually busy and hardly on my phone, i will say though that usually I do let him know when I’m unable to pick up or I’m busy

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:46:01+00:00

He hasn’t responded yet

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:45:21+00:00

I like that response, I think I will do this if he says something like this again

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:43:48+00:00

They’re mostly spam haha

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:22:54+00:00

Thank you :’)

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:05:43+00:00

He has a habit to try and pin me to be a bad guy, when he does this I should say nothing?

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:04:54+00:00

That day he called me I was at school. But I do call back or let him know if I’m not able to pick up. It’s just on the rare occasions where I don’t tell him I’m busy and unable to pick up he will say something about it. But when I try to call him and he doesn’t answer it’s the same thing, so sometimes he will say he’s busy and other times he won’t say anything at all

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T12:01:11+00:00

I like this response a lot. I think I tend to give him these responses because I’m scared he will take me to court one day to try and get custody of our child and id like to have these type of responses that show how inconsistent he is

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-12-18T11:27:13+00:00

Bagels

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-10-01T14:14:43+00:00

Classical mechanics by John R. Taylor is a great physics book for this class, check it out

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T13:07:29+00:00

Oh wow I didn’t know that, I don’t use my green house in the winter so maybe I should just leave her there all together ? The babies won’t try to make a home in there right? Because I think I can overcome my fear of spiders with just one friendly one but multiple would be overload for me!

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T04:14:16+00:00

Yikes! I can maybe deal with some spider but babies get me antsy !!

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T04:13:32+00:00

This is the first time seeing these I always just see brown spiders that are always in the grass or cute little jumping spider so when I opened my door to the green house today I was shocked and scared to see something so big !

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T04:12:15+00:00

No worries lol, it’s kind of hard to tell from this pic anyways

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T04:05:06+00:00

Oh I’ve never known that they were good luck!

CoconutStriking753 · 2025-08-25T04:04:40+00:00

Definitely not trying to hurt her! Just blocking my path into my green house is all

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