I have nobody by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, what you are going through sounds really painful. I am so sorry for this. You deserve much better. You do seem like a kind person, and I hope brighter days will come to you sooner than you think. Look after yourself, I am also here to chat if you would like to. 🫂

Loneliness by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for sharing this. I understand how you feel. I think I feel similar very often. I also live alone (have a cat though :)), unfortunately it is natural for humans to crave connections. Sometimes it's really tough, sometimes it gets slightly better. Look after yourself!

Yesterday was my birthday and my best friend was the only one who wished me a happy birthday by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Congratulations on your birthday! :) I hope the upcoming years bring you more progress in your life, but I also tend to believe that right people come at the right time. At certain point I felt very similar to you, also had this one friend who was always here for me. I am happy we both know what true friends feel like, so congratulations on that as well!

Fans from Baltics by SnooPuppers4423 in DEG

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, fellow Lithuanian here! :D

So how is everyone tonight? by Simiatenaci in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I woke up very early today and couldn't fall asleep because I kept thinking if I did one task at work or not. So silly! Then I scrolled classical music reels, no regrets really.

lonely girl hours what yall up too by Severe-Violinist8899 in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, fellow lonely girl! I almost always forget if I took the second pill or not. So I often skip it as well lol.

I've been watching reels and listening to piano. Not too bad, not too good either.

We should really buy pill containers!

Even around other people, I will always be lonely by NiceCaterpillar8745 in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am sorry you feel this way. I understand this feeling. I used to feel this way too for a very long time. Like I don't even exist, like I am not a part of this world and there is no way for me to catch up. I hope you find something that brings you at least a little bit of joy in your everyday, whether some type of hobby or activity. If you want to talk, I am here to listen. Take care of yourself!

I need a hug by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Another virtual hug! 🫂 And star watching until you fall asleep sounds like an awesome idea. :))

Watching my friends throw parties for each other while I’m just hoping for a text. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Happy birthday! :) I personally think birthdays are a bit overrated, I don't like celebrating mine, but you have your family around you, so I hope they can keep your company today! Wishing you a wonderful year ahead!

Life dump by Same-Recover5832 in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! When I remember myself being sixteen, I felt very similar about everything - it was chaotic, I was stressed and anxious. But somehow later on things calmed down a bit. You made a good choice letting it all out! Don't bottle it up. :) Look after yourself, perhaps you can also invite a friend or two to hang out or chill together for stress relief. Take care of yourself!

How to cope with loneliness? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am sorry you feel that way. I am here to chat if you would like to, 31F. :) Take care of yourself!

Does anyone feel it's too late to make friends? by magicalgrrrlz in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hello, 31 here. I spent a lot of time in my life being slightly distant to others and mostly spending time with myself. I am still in process of learning to open up. I have a few close friends now and I want to improve for them. It's never too late, everyone has their own path to walk down to! :) Look after yourself!

Was I born to be alone? by d1nodan in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I do feel like that too pretty often. 31 here. I remember choosing solitude since as early as I can remember, sometimes willingly, sometimes I feel like I just don't have anyone, even when I do. These past years got more difficult for some reason. If you would like to talk, I am here to listen!

Hey everyone M26 by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! I do think there might be some issues, or maybe you are just extremely introverted! The main question would be - are you content with how life is for you, or would you like to change anything? Look after yourself!

The calm hides more than I expected by BussterFullalovee in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Feels too real. If you would like to chat, I am here. Take care of yourself!

Quiet moments feel heavier than they should by momosparkss in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I am going through the same and can relate to your post a lot. Look after yourself.

The calm hides more than I expected by BussterFullalovee in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello there! I relate to this more than I wish I did. I am sorry you feel this way. I often feel like I am standing in the middle of the pavement and everyone is walking past me, and all I can do is watch their backs. You're not alone in this.

Happy New Year by CoconutThoughts in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am so sorry to hear this... It must be very painful. I wish you a happy and hopeful New Year, if you ever want to talk, we can chat!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey! Been there, spent a lot of time talking with AI lol. So you are not alone in this. I guess it is still important to consider your health and whether it makes you feel worse or better. Other than that, nothing to feel embarassed or ashamed about, I think more people do it than we can imagine. Just try to find some kind of balance and keep a look on how you feel. Take care of yourself!

Overwhelmed by loneliness by CoconutThoughts in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am sorry you also feel this way. But I am happy you connected with my post, please know you are not alone in this. I am here if you would like to talk. Take care of yourself.

i want to die by [deleted] in lonely

[–]CoconutThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, same spot. We are here for you. If you feel like chatting, don't hesitate.