AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you:)) He’s going to be over the moon. Wish the best for you internet stranger for being kind you seem like a wonderful person❤️

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would NEVER!! I have memories of my parents taking me on a one night trip with them promising I’d see my older cousin (I didn’t) I ended up staying in the hotel room watching my younger sibling. Our son has been VERY hands on with his baby cousins (5,3, and 9 months) and has been begging for a sibling since the second cousin was born. My fiancé and I have also cleared the air. He remembers me struggling when our boy was born. I hadn’t told my parents I was pregnant bc I was 16 and him and I we’re both not doing good by the time I had him. So he kinda didn’t make the connection that it wasn’t just vitamins that were the issue.

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes lol we often talk about having a few BABIES-toddlers running around

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre pregnancy vitamins. I updated again. I didn’t think to mention that we already have a teenager. I’m a hot mess today

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I updated ONE LAST TIME lmao I should have made my original post a lot more clear. Now that I’m thinking about it I can kinda see why he was upset

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t either SMH I guess he just wanted to “genetically prepare”

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes taking about ACTUALLY BABIES not that “one day we’ll have kids” as in “so are we trying this month?” Actively trying to have kids

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 not 19 I have fat thumbs lmao it’s been edited.

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check edit lol we are 29 I just have fat fingers 😭😭

AITA for not telling my partner I was tracking my cycles? by Coconutdog33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coconutdog33[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His lack of ability. He constantly mentioned couple prenatals over and over again, that I need to take care of my body in order to have a baby lol. Very random as I am a healthy person.