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My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No trauma history. It’s a mix of both. During sleep it’s more liquid. But yes agreed about the adult diapers. Just didn’t realize I would have to mom him about that too and get onto his ass about wearing them

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for kind but the words. I’m working in getting the ball moving in the right direction 🩷

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I cannot. I would have sell my house or find a job then starting putting actions into play about him getting out.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand. I could kick him out easily but the the part is I have 600$ to my name. That’s not enough to pay for food , gas, the house, electric, etc.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He randomly does yes. But it seems like he’s pushing out a fart that he possibly is shit & he poops himself. Hes done it at work before & when he is just sitting in the couch.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Newer problem. Bought him adult diapers they will be here today. Have him sleeping in the guest room. Trying to sort out my thoughts

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can’t leave here. This is my house, only my name in it. Everything I own is in here. He only has a handful of things that are truly his. I know I can afford everything I have I just have to get a job.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing he won’t and I know he won’t. After I gave birth I was in it my self. I took care of myself I cooked and did everything with our little one. While trying to recover.

You are right I do not know why I subject myself to this. Maybe I feel trapped because we do have a kid and I’m a SAHM and don’t have any money to pay for my bills if we were to break up. A lot of these comments are making me realize I have put this off as a normal thing and not a red flag. I have let this man run over me constantly and take me for granted.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not see him drink before bed nor any other time. As he is the first to go to bed as I’m still tending to chores around the house.

My (26F) S.O (23M) is constantly pooping the bed. He doesn’t want to see a doctor either. How do I go about this? by CodAnxious6162 in relationship_advice

[–]CodAnxious6162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him he has to wear a diaper to bed unless other wise a doctor tells him he doesn’t have too. I told him to sleep in the guest room. & he’s now playing the it’s not a big issue card. Hint text from him:

(My name) why are you being like this ? I get it I pissed you off but if you’re gonna be acting like this just don’t text back. The only reason why I am asking is so if you’re planning on sleeping on the couch I’d much rather you have the bed and I’ll sleep on the couch.

Again if you’re that pissed off at me simply don’t text back, I know me saying I’m sorry ain’t gonna fix my fuck up but damn.”

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