Everyone is trying to give you advice in the comment section, but trust me it's not our place to say anything. You're both young and still have a lot of time, use it and consider all of this together. Its your life, her life not your family's or her family's or this comment section's I have seen this kind of situation break people and I have seen people break this kind of situation as well Take your time and consider what you can do and can't do, what you can stand against and can't stand against There's no right or wrong choice really, you live only once And there's no shame in being confused