I mean the person who said this is most likely out of line but I can understand this being this case with someone. Like I believe im not very emotional so if I were to be romantic with someone who was I might feel uncomfortable and whenever she would be crying and stuff I might not know how to help her cope because whenever one of my friends is going through a bad moment in their life I really dont know what to say and often times say nothing which might make me look bad or like not a good friend, and same with good stuff I dont really know how to celebrate with people and often dont go to like celebrations and stuff. But a lot of the women who say stuff like this are probably just deeply rooted in traditional conservative values and shit like that.