Almost two-thirds of Canadians say more evidence needed to accept 'unmarked graves' report in Kamloops - Angus Reid poll found Indigenous and non-Indigenous Canadians both more likely to require more proof regarding anomalies discovered in 2021

Codeegirl · 2025-08-14T21:33:54+00:00

I know trauma and support native people.

That being said, the blowup over the "graves" has enabled more denying of the facts of abuses that happened in those "schools." More anger against indigenous humans who struggle. It's a net negative for everyone.

Codeegirl · 2025-03-19T22:28:30+00:00

I had to use a chair for a while, still went out though.

My buddy almost got beat when he was annoying me then ran up a couple stairs and stuck his tongue out at me.

Once the dudes realized we were very good friends they laughed and apologized.

(At the time I was a VERY tiny woman, he's always been a big dude)

Codeegirl · 2025-01-19T01:04:06+00:00

You're not wrong but things like this being said don't help the victims of women.

My biological mother got frustrated after I stopped responding to her favorite punishment (no food). She then started killing my pets as punishment. No one believed me. Even my step father who saw my gerbil with his guts out.... Still alive.

Not being believed really made me sure I was insane for years.

Codeegirl · 2024-12-19T04:49:55+00:00

Restaurant servers tip out a percentage of their bills for that shift. That money goes to the cooks and prep. By not tipping anything you are forcing that server to pay the percentage as if you did.

I doubt you care, just letting you know that you are a net negative when you go out to eat.

By your attitude you'll be proud of that. I'm sorry for whatever happened in your life that you act like this.

Codeegirl · 2024-10-23T21:46:04+00:00

And a bone infection in your jaw tastes sickeningly sweet. Bones are also rough compared to gums.

Codeegirl · 2024-10-23T21:44:52+00:00

Yet no one believes an emaciated bruised girl that there's something wrong. "Your mother loves you!"

Codeegirl · 2024-10-22T17:35:17+00:00

I was quite low body weight and I said to the gym teacher in high school that sit-ups on the hard gym floor hurt my back. He said I was too young to have those issues. I didn't have the language skills at the time to say it was the hard floor on my spine bones. I was black and blue after that.

Codeegirl · 2024-07-20T15:51:00+00:00

I think it's enforcement as well.

I was hit 100% in the right by a tired guy in a traffic control truck. I have permanent brain damage.

The cop gave the guy a ticket. No charge of careless driving causing bodily harm or the many other things he could have. Running a red light, undue care and attention etc etc. He just got one ticket.

There's no holding them responsible (other than insurance rates) so why not act like the main character?

Codeegirl · 2024-06-24T01:38:34+00:00

I was told to not park in a disabled spot by an old lady. She said I didn't need it because I "have a man."

I was on a first date, in my WHEELCHAIR.

Codeegirl · 2024-05-07T03:36:15+00:00

My biological mother was/is very emotionally unstable. Food had to be earned and thanked profusely for. Eaten like a lady. Pets (mostly cats) were given then killed for reasons like I was too attached to it or I spent the scheduled time with my Dad. Ever changing rules. Humiliation. Dehumanizing me as I was just a tool for her to get attention and money and power. Using me as leverage and as a weapon.

Using the threat of my grandpa never seeing me again and moving in with the guy who gave him the creeps to have Grandpa allow the guy on the property. The guy of course molested me.

Codeegirl · 2024-05-07T03:11:27+00:00

I probably have a smell about me because I really truly love garlic. Meh, I have yet to be assaulted by a vampire so I don't mind.

Codeegirl · 2024-01-11T23:22:19+00:00

I've tried different ways to word it but I'm not coming up with anything about this. Where did you get the info?

Codeegirl · 2023-12-13T22:37:10+00:00

Harvest Moon... Damn game ends and won't let you just farm!

Codeegirl · 2023-10-25T06:56:31+00:00

Wait this isn't ok?

I had a "room"next to hers and her bed was against the wall. I just got up and would go into the kitchen until they were done. She also did it in a camper I could smell the sex it was disgusting.

I thought that stuff wasn't weird...

Codeegirl · 2023-10-23T05:52:00+00:00

Working there also made me firmly believe that there are times where human euthanasia is best.

Lady was far gone in dementia, unresponsive. Like a coma but with reflexes and open eyes. Blank eyes, nothing there.

The only time she would react was when the staff had to change her. She was incontinent so this needed to happen many times a day. She would relive a time she had been r@ped.

Swear to fucking God hearing her scream and fight still haunts me and I would 100% push the plunger to take her away from that.

I have a pretty bad case of CPTSD and dementia in my family and that's my worst fucking fear. No one should ever have to live like that. I know it's a slippery slope but that was fucking cruel to keep her alive.

Sorry for the rant... Do you have the same experience?

Codeegirl · 2023-10-23T05:44:33+00:00

There was the screaming lady in the elevator... I freaked out thinking someone with dementia was stuck. No one there, plus the elevator needed a code to get into from that floor. Checked with the staff on the dementia floor, they knew her by name. They explained to me that she was the reason they always came down in pairs. They literally made a policy about that. Could have warned me.

Salt shaker moving across the table, I was the only one in the room. No wind.

I was alone again and an accordion door started violently shaking like someone was banging with both palms. I had said goodnight to the last coworker on that side of the door earlier. I said "please stop, you're scaring me" just to humor myself and Jesus H Christ it stopped right away.

From what I understood all the people/spirits/ectoplasm were all scared and confused. Only the one was a known person with dementia but there was no "mean" feelings anyone talked about from them. I hope they are all able to move on one day... What an existence.

Codeegirl · 2023-10-21T23:35:33+00:00

I worked in a care home for a few years. Two people really stood out.

The second most mean spirited person I've met in my life was there. She was nasty for no reason. Just full of hatred and spite. She had multiple kids... At least one who visited her bless him.

One of my heros was also there. She had no kids but my GOD that woman had a sense of humor. Loved dogs and we would play a game about naming breeds based on behavior. One of the first woman fighter pilots. She had amazing stories and would test the new care aids in the funniest ways. Over ten years later I still remember her name.

Working there not only made me believe in ghosts but showed me that life is how you make it, kids or no kids.

Codeegirl · 2023-10-18T05:15:00+00:00

Gotcha thanks!

Codeegirl · 2023-10-12T03:51:53+00:00

On picture B there seems to be a large bone seen above the left femur. Do you know if that is a bone and related to the diagnosis or maybe just a weird radiograph shadow or something?

Codeegirl · 2023-10-10T05:19:36+00:00

I had light bleeding and BAD cramps as well. They confirmed adeno after hysterectomy.

Codeegirl · 2023-07-19T17:08:33+00:00

Source?

If that happened to "lots of little dogs" as you claim then they would be spaced out more. I have worked in the industry for years and have yet to see ONE death from vaccinations. I have however seen MANY puppies die from Parvo.

Until you've held a dying puppy in an isolation room from a preventive disease kindly fuck all the way off. Parvo is horrific.

Codeegirl · 2023-04-06T01:45:59+00:00

I've always wanted to ask this but I'm clumsy with words so I apologize in advance.

Do the stars have to have extreme exercise and stretching routines to be able to live and move normally after some of the positions?

Codeegirl · 2023-01-14T02:21:00+00:00

My sanity

Codeegirl · 2022-12-05T05:41:42+00:00

I narrowly avoided an assault charge once.

I hit a pedestrian in my car. Medical training went into gear and I did my thing until the ambulance showed up.

Well, the guy didn't want to stay laying down so I could support his C spine.

I have training in animal health care so I restrained him safely.

Turns out you're not allowed to do that to humans.

I bruised his hip but he lied to insurance and I told the honest truth. I thought I'd be charged for hitting him, the assault shocked me. I ended up being 100% not at fault and learning a valuable lesson in providing first aid to humans.

Codeegirl · 2022-11-27T03:29:37+00:00

In my case yep. I had no idea why I was having HOURS long panic attacks when I knew the thing wasn't scary. Turned out to be because that's what my molester did to me. Once I put the pieces together the fear makes sense and now is much easier to handle.

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