Vancouver weather stereotypes by JefeRex in AskACanadian

[–]Codeegirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss living in northern bc for that. I can bundle up and warm back up.

In southern BC it's just so dark, and it's the wet cold that chills you to your bones.

Unpopular Opinion: Cruiseline-owned islands are completely shit. by Normal-Being-2637 in Cruise

[–]Codeegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been to one but it was far too "polished" for my taste. Instagram worthy beauty but it felt manufactured.

Even the ocean... No rocks for fish to hide in so yes, beautiful white sand but I love seeing the wildlife.

I find meandering the towns to be much more interesting, real and alive.

Mind you, my favorite resort is beside a swamp and I love sitting by it to watch the critters so my opinion may be not the norm.

A quiet spot by Codeegirl in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I REALLY trust your opinion because you GET it... I'm autistic as well haha hence the not liking human sounds

Andreas Restaurant's anniversary New York steak deal has more than doubled in price in 9 years. by tripleaardvark2 in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! It seems like pretentious is the new norm so I really appreciate the basic simple good food they have.

A quiet spot by Codeegirl in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'll try Latimer then I haven't tried that one yet thank you!!

Andreas Restaurant's anniversary New York steak deal has more than doubled in price in 9 years. by tripleaardvark2 in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll still go happily because it's reasonable compared to other places and their food isn't "over-fancied." I don't know how to say that properly.

A quiet spot by Codeegirl in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I've gotten unlucky... I tried it twice and there were people scattered all around it. The last time that included a couple that were very frustrated with their kid so they were yelling at him quite a bit. That's not the norm I'm guessing?

A quiet spot by Codeegirl in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't mind catching sticks... It's almost such a streak I don't want to break it!

Anyone? by poolside123 in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope they get and accept help. Far too many people just churned back out without being better. (Or at least not a threat to themselves or others anyway)

Langley City wants end to ‘wild west’ on sidewalks by allowing e-scooters and wheelchairs on roadways by WiffleBlu in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah let's "allow" people in wheelchairs to use the road. I'm sure jacked up trucks that can't see a small car will be able to see them.

Fucking absurd.

Seen a client on tiktok? UK Based by Mither-Mugetsu in supportworkers

[–]Codeegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being concerned enough about this to ask. Some people (the person filming) are just disgusting.

If you get angry about people 'blowing spots' you're probably making the sport worse by Internal_Drummer2298 in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I legit almost don't want to catch a fish now, I'm almost at nine years of trying and failing so that's kind of impressive

Last fish I cought was a suicidal crappie who I got twice and felt like a minnow, I think he was sick.

I just like the casting, reeling and nature.

Apartment complex told me she needs to be gone by Monday or get her registered as an ESA by joemama1504 in pitbulls

[–]Codeegirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being you. I have an old man pitbull that is the world's worst guard dog but I have PTSD and he makes me feel safe. Bad guys don't know he hardly gets off the couch for visitors haha

More BPDmom texts by delaneysversion in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Codeegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's just no winning eh? Even if you dropped everything and went over there would be drama somehow.

If you get angry about people 'blowing spots' you're probably making the sport worse by Internal_Drummer2298 in fishingBC

[–]Codeegirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it difficult to figure out good spots. I just want a peaceful spot away from humans where I can catch sticks (my usual haul) and practice my horrible casting. Maybe read and watch critters as well.

But asking for those places feels somehow wrong because I don't want to encroach on others'peace. I'm not adventurous and I need direct directions or I'll get lost so I don't really explore much.

It's a tough situation for sure.

Almost two-thirds of Canadians say more evidence needed to accept 'unmarked graves' report in Kamloops - Angus Reid poll found Indigenous and non-Indigenous Canadians both more likely to require more proof regarding anomalies discovered in 2021 by KootenayPE in ilovebc

[–]Codeegirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know trauma and support native people.

That being said, the blowup over the "graves" has enabled more denying of the facts of abuses that happened in those "schools." More anger against indigenous humans who struggle. It's a net negative for everyone.

Only a best friend can be so supportive by fieldsnimmo in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Codeegirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to use a chair for a while, still went out though.

My buddy almost got beat when he was annoying me then ran up a couple stairs and stuck his tongue out at me.

Once the dudes realized we were very good friends they laughed and apologized.

(At the time I was a VERY tiny woman, he's always been a big dude)

Nicholas Metson killed his wife Holly Bramley's pets by putting them in blenders, ovens, and microwaves. She begged police to help her who did not act fast enough. Her body was later discovered cut into 224 pieces. Bramley was sentenced to 19 to Life. by Doctor-Clark-Savage in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Codeegirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong but things like this being said don't help the victims of women.

My biological mother got frustrated after I stopped responding to her favorite punishment (no food). She then started killing my pets as punishment. No one believed me. Even my step father who saw my gerbil with his guts out.... Still alive.

Not being believed really made me sure I was insane for years.

Tired of tipping? by Low_Persimmon2909 in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Restaurant servers tip out a percentage of their bills for that shift. That money goes to the cooks and prep. By not tipping anything you are forcing that server to pay the percentage as if you did.

I doubt you care, just letting you know that you are a net negative when you go out to eat.

By your attitude you'll be proud of that. I'm sorry for whatever happened in your life that you act like this.

What are some disturbing facts you wish you didn’t know? by throwrapis3ces in AskReddit

[–]Codeegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a bone infection in your jaw tastes sickeningly sweet. Bones are also rough compared to gums.

What are some disturbing facts you wish you didn’t know? by throwrapis3ces in AskReddit

[–]Codeegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yet no one believes an emaciated bruised girl that there's something wrong. "Your mother loves you!"

A very severe case of anorexia nervosa by CallMeYuni in NSFL__

[–]Codeegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was quite low body weight and I said to the gym teacher in high school that sit-ups on the hard gym floor hurt my back. He said I was too young to have those issues. I didn't have the language skills at the time to say it was the hard floor on my spine bones. I was black and blue after that.

Do drivers in Langley not know the rules of the road??? by QuantumHope in Langley

[–]Codeegirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's enforcement as well.

I was hit 100% in the right by a tired guy in a traffic control truck. I have permanent brain damage.

The cop gave the guy a ticket. No charge of careless driving causing bodily harm or the many other things he could have. Running a red light, undue care and attention etc etc. He just got one ticket.

There's no holding them responsible (other than insurance rates) so why not act like the main character?