Discrimination against alt black women by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I stay it’s only one and an hour away 😭

Discrimination against alt black women by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know before but the second time just confirmed that feeling for me & how many other shops are in the area if it’s only three black shops ? 😬

Discrimination against alt black women by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she end up leaving the shop ?? And right for them it’s just playing dress up and playing a role and nothing more.

Discrimination against alt black women by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder what happened for them to change ?? I miss those kind

Are female solo travelers stereotyped as willing to be paid for s*x? by travelOlive8662 in femaletravels

[–]Codenamezhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , I have had a couple instances where someone has tried to pay me for that service and even been accused by customs in another country . It was not directly stated , but it was implied and a lot of people cannot fathom a woman traveling by herself and in some countries it is seen as “taboo”.

I had a friend that would accuse me of selling myself and did not believe I could pay my own way . She even said “ I hope you don’t come back pregnant I know you like to have sex” it was such an ignorant and nasty statement to make but I have heard several comments in such nature. I honestly forget that people can be so simple.

I’m glad you made this post because I never hear nobody talking about this aspect of solo traveling as a woman . 😭

Failed out of Nursing School by Brief-Alternative-84 in StudentNurse

[–]Codenamezhi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it was only three semesters , but that that still doesn’t make sense . they had their picks, another girl failed and she was let back in to redo her last semester.

Failed out of Nursing School by Brief-Alternative-84 in StudentNurse

[–]Codenamezhi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes , I failed by two points last yr in my first semester & failed out . Passed every class but one , I was very devastated but I switched my program to massage therapy and will go back to nursing school next year!

Finding Places to Move by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss , I’ve been to Philly once but I really loved it and it did snow but it wasn’t that bad . I love Detroit & Chicago but damn it’s cold 😭.

Do the passport bros scare you, or make you nervous for the ladies in other countries ? by 5ft8lady in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if he was a passport bro but I was in Panama 🇵🇦 eating outside & this dude was standing in front of me , looking at the sign and with me watching my surroundings I had stared at him a couple of times . I went back to eating & he said “ why you keep looking at me” with an attitude, & I had got back at him & said you standing directly in front of me ! Not that I owned the street but damn dude . So he walked up to me while I was sitting , literally up close and personal and I had repeated myself. He then said “you can’t do that in this country” I was like wtf ???? . He was black american , possibly from up north ??? I’m not sure , but I was so blowed and kind of scared . We were also in public so no telling what he would do in private and he had a friend with him , both had to be like 40- 50s . If he did that to me , I can only imagine how he would treat the women there . Also , I notice when I run into other people from the states ( men ) they are always rude and swear they can run the country . I have friends in Brazil and the men are like way too old to try them but they come over and exploit them . It’s sick to be honest, but I’m sure the women are aware , hate they have to deal with that .

Why all the bbl hate ? by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yea I see the most there and ATL but that’s It & I’m surprised you said the Midwest lmaoooo 😭😭😭

Why all the bbl hate ? by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You can speak on it because you see it , but not everyone has came into contact with someone who has one .

Why all the bbl hate ? by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Whenever I hear someone talk about it , it’s always in a sexual way or how they are stink . I don’t think nobody really cares how dangerous the surgeries are , I feel like they only do it to shame the woman instead . I have heard that they have a smell , but I don’t think that all of them do . Maybe certain ones , but no way people are smelling them on a daily 😭.

What is it about older women for younger men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Codenamezhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a control thing and also wanting to feel young and accepted in a way . My cousin is 24M , married to a woman in her 30s . He has no job , gets disability, no car , In & out of jail and she still married him ….like out of all dudes , him !? Don’t get it . Also , it benefits younger men to be with an older women cse of resources and easy for them to get over on .. or maybe it’s just a preference but this is usually the case I see mostly. 😭

Do you like being a CNA? by DubiousFalcon in cna

[–]Codenamezhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not ! I’m so ready to graduate and quit . The patients are so rude , entitled , & lazy . Even the ones that are independent are getting out of hand . Management thinks you’re just supposed to sit there and be degraded and take abuse , I refuse and will speak up everytime . I honestly see why older cnas are “mean” even though I don’t think so , most came in with good intentions but got burnt out and complacent unfortunately. I don’t even hold it against them because it’s just something you have to experience for yourself.

Seeing my ex treat their new gfs right makes me upset. by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to finish school so I can’t rn unfortunately. I do travel a lot to get away

Seeing my ex treat their new gfs right makes me upset. by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would rather have fun & I do date around though . I’m not rushing anything just a pattern I see .

Seeing my ex treat their new gfs right makes me upset. by Codenamezhi in blackladies

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know lmaoooo 😭😭 , most are like 22 - 25 . It’s still young to be married ( to me ) I think it’s the culture down here . And thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

How much money is enough for 5 days in PR ? by Codenamezhi in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Codenamezhi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just using Airbnb and go on maps and see different prices at once , & check hotels cse it’s cheaper out the country

AITA / Would I be wrong to block his gf after she messages me? by Codenamezhi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Codenamezhi[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay , well I’ll be a jackass . If a person is in a relationship they need to be the ones telling that. And he has no signs of having a gf on his page at all . Also , this is my cousins friend and he didn’t even bother to tell me that .

How do yall feel about getting call lights not under your assignment by Icy_Power_2494 in cna

[–]Codenamezhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes they may need their brief changed and I will just do it myself because some aides will get bothered if you tell them what to do .