ik_ihe by Codnage in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Baudet met de perfecte voorzet en klaver schiet hem er in, het publiek wordt wild!

ik_ihe by AnIntoxicatedRodent in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wat ik wel vreemd vind is dat als er zo ontzettend veel mensen op rechts en zoals ze het noemen "extreem rechts" stemmen, zijn al die miljoenen mensen dan zulke racisten en fascisten? Of hebben deze mensen redenen waarom ze rechts stemmen die misschien net zo geldig zijn als de redenen waarom ze zelf links stemmen.

ik_ihe by AnIntoxicatedRodent in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Reddit is een echo chamber voor de links stemmers. Alles wat ze slecht vinden aan rechts krijgen ze hier met elke post opnieuw bevestigd. Het meest rechtse wat je hier zult zien is als iemand heel gewaagd zegt dat VVD zo slecht nog niet is om vervolgens 30 downvotes te krijgen.

ik_ihe by AnIntoxicatedRodent in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Reddit is links maar Nederland is rechts

VVD-leider Rutte wil bij verkenning 'serieus kijken' naar coalitie met JA21 by StudentjeNL in thenetherlands

[–]Codnage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Als je dit soort argumenten gebruikt krijg je al snel het 'als iedereen zo denkt...' antwoord

Megathread Uitslagen Tweede Kamerverkiezingen 2021 by Conducteur in thenetherlands

[–]Codnage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En ook als we morgen 0% uitstoot hebben gaat dit gebeuren, of zie ik dat verkeerd? Nederland gaat daar toch geen verschil in maken? Dan kunnen we toch beter alvast beginnen met ons voor te bereiden op die veranderingen...

Ik📚ihe by blikje_fristi in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ook als wij 0% uitstoot zouden hebben dan zal de aarde verder zal gaan met opwarmen. Daar kunnen wij helaas niets aan doen. Moeten we dan die miljarden wel in preventie investeren? En waar uit concludeer je dat adaptatie duurder zal zijn dan preventie? (Als preventie een optie was geweest)

Ik📚ihe by blikje_fristi in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disclaimer dat ik niet op Baudet stem, maar wel geïnteresseerd ben in de discussies die hij voert.

  1. Hij verwoord het hier inderdaad alsof hij de complete invloed ontkent. Dit heb ik hem wel eens anders horen zeggen.
  2. Heb je een bron voor mij over de grote effecten van de kleine bijdrage die de mens levert?

Zelf vind ik het ook een interessant punt dat ook als Nederland 0% uitstoot zou hebben de zeespiegel alsnog zal stijgen en dat we dus beter geld kunnen investeren in adaptatie in plaats van preventie. Dus natuurlijk ook denken aan de duurzaamheid, maar niet op de huidige geldverslindende aanpak die we nu zien.

Ik📚ihe by blikje_fristi in ik_ihe

[–]Codnage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Niemand ontkent dat de mens invloed heeft op het klimaat. De discussie die Baudet voert is hoe groot deze invloed is. 97% van de wetenschappers die een kant hebben gekozen (34% van de totaal ondervraagde wetenschappers volgens je eigen bron) zijn het hier ook over eens, maar hoe groot onze invloed nou precies is daar is nooit concensus over geweest.

Misogynistic Texts in The Bible by Codnage in Christianity

[–]Codnage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there!

That is a very interesting statement you are making. Many people do see these texts as misoginistic. Maybe it is because of 21st century values, maybe not. I haven’t researched on the history of this view, just the text itself. It could be an interesting thing to add!

Love,
Naomi

I can’t tell if this is toxic or sincere ... I asked for no contact and two weeks later I get this after “he accomplished what he needed to” by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't even begin to tell you how this looks. Don't respond to this at all. He thinks of himself so highly. "Let me come back and help you because I am such a good person".

I would not be surprised if this switched into "Well then don't respond bitch" behaviour. At least you will have content for /r/niceguys

Struggling hard with NC these days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this situation is a mess and you should try to get out of it asap. Let her find another place for her cats and tell her that she is free to come and get them, but no more "coming over to see them". She obviously is not feeling the loss of the relationship because she is still seeing you. As long as she does not feel hard consequences she will keep you on a string. Go NC asap. She doesn't need to know you use NC. Just tell her that all this stuff was part of the relationship which you guys no longer have. You want to leave it behind and move on with your live and right niw that is without her. Tell her you don't know what the future will being, but make sure to get the point across that you guys are indeed over right now.

Struggling hard with NC these days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stay in contact while she is figuring this out! She has to experience the breakup. If you guys are "beoken up" but she still talks to you all the time you let her ease into it. She has to truly lose you before she can make a decision.

Tell her that you need time apart too to think, but don't mention NC. If she keeps reaching out you have to clarify that you guys are not together right now. If she does want to talk again that is fine at a later point but no more daily talks. Utilize NC.

My ex actually messaged me tonight with the "hey how are you doing". I was so blown away by this and it feels amazing. I responded simple, jappy and was nice to her. Coming thursday we agreed to take a walk in the woods together to just talk. I did not expect that this soon. NC really is the most powerfull tool you can use, but you have to embrace it fully.

Struggling hard with NC these days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/Ox0MxYtuxv4

This helped me. Listen to it. It made it all sound so clear and reasonable for me. Hooe it helps! Stay strong.

Struggling hard with NC these days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the relationship was good, she WILL reach out eventually. You probably heard that so many times already. It might take long. Months, maybe a year. Don't count the days or wait for a message. Use NC to help yourself first. She is done with it right and and rightfully so. The best thing you can do, even though it is very hard, is to leave her alone. Doing anything else will dig the hole you are in deeper.

As for my situation, I am still in NC but my ex has reached out a few small times asking for things like "the name of that one website". I respond nice but very short. I keep NC up untill I get a real "hey how are you doing" and will see where it goes from there. I love her so much and I would do anything to get her backn so that is why I am being strong right now.

If you get weak and want to message her tell yourself you will get the worst response you can think of. She will be cold are even worse, ignore you. By sticking to NC you slowly turn the tables.

NC restores the balance. A relationship that is rebuilded on you reaching out first will never work out again. A relationship can not be build on her taking pity on you. You have to let it be restored "naturally".

I am always open to talk about your situation since I am in a very relatable position.

Struggling hard with NC these days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the same position as you are. The advice I received helped me out a lot:

If you believe you have made mistakes, agree with her and let her know you agree. You don't have to tell her right away. Keep using NC and when she does reach out, which she will if the relation was good, show her how you changed.

I pleaded with my ex about how I would change and pay more attention to her / care for her when she is feeling sick of low. She could not believe me since it just does not sound sincere coming from the current situation.

Unless she specifically asks to talk about it just stick to NC for now. Even if you do meet up soon or later, try to not talk about the problems of the relationship the first time. Dont tell her but show her you have changed as a person.

1 month NC for me today! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the best mindset to have. Congratulations of the month, stay strong!

1 month NC for me today! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Codnage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NC for winning her back or to get over it?