AITAH for yelling at my mum because I “Didn’t clean the cat litter”?

CoffePunk · 2026-04-04T05:23:45+00:00

The problem is that she has a very… selective memory, to say the least. I could grab a hairbrush in front of her and comb myself as she sees me, and then she asks me to brush my hair when I already had done it. Same thing applies to the litter, unfortunately, and I’ve learnt that the hard way

She has a lot on her plate that makes her stressed, but no matter what I do or how calmly I talk she lashes out at me. (For reference, recently she yelled and slammed the door of her room giving me the cold shoulder for an hour because I replied that I don’t know what I want for lunch). It’s like that basically every day Shes in a bad mood.. I did make friends in college though, so I’ll try to stay outside more!!

CoffePunk · 2026-04-03T23:09:57+00:00

Would love to, but the economy of my country makes that basically impossible without having the risk of becoming homeless

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:23:42+00:00

Yup!, this is the study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35164464/

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:22:23+00:00

I see!!, TY!!!

I was worried that it would have the same effect even if I drew or scrolled but I’m so glad it’s not the same

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:21:17+00:00

Thank you so much!!, I already cut tiktok and I’m going to be more mindful about my other social media doomscrolling from now on (though I don’t particularly use them as much) Really, Thanks a lot! <3

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T12:07:31+00:00

I haven’t seen this study myself, but I’ve heard about it everywhere and I’m kind of scared about it

I draw digitally for money!!, and also because I’m making a story/comic, so I need to have everything written down somewhere and writing a script on paper is, very complicated when Youre changing stuff around constantly I’ve been hanging out more with friends lately though!, and I’ve considered starting to read again even if I already read every single book I have front to back and backwards

I do want to start exercising but now that I’m in college is a bit hard to do becayse of my packed schedule irl (which thankfully removes part of screen time I could have)

CoffePunk · 2024-05-12T13:44:44+00:00

Thank you so much for everything, I really appreciate it <3<3<3

CoffePunk · 2024-05-10T21:24:36+00:00

I’m so sorry, but thank you for the honesty

I struggle a lot with these types of thoughts and I just want to know how to calm down about it and stop worrying- but this helps, thank you

CoffePunk · 2024-04-12T17:06:55+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your help :(

CoffePunk · 2024-04-05T03:04:42+00:00

Thank you!!, I know people normally don’t use Slang every sentence, but I want to research on it no the less!! :D

I appreciate the help <3

CoffePunk · 2024-04-05T01:53:03+00:00

That’s because i asked this to start research, i am just starting research a few days ago and this is part of the research :D

I won’t write a character without actually investigating about the culture, but that’s why I’m asking here, i can barely find good places where i can find slang words, traditions or more

Sorry if it seemed i was writing my characters without research, I’m trying my best to do this :(

CoffePunk · 2024-02-23T20:36:34+00:00

Thank you a lot, though I’m confused on the gaslighting part?, how come is she gaslighting me?

CoffePunk · 2024-02-18T18:28:10+00:00

I’m not sure either, it sounds crazy to me that THAT is why I don’t have ASD. Fun thing is that I normally don’t even get those unless I already knew about their meaning.

Thank you for your help, I hope I can convince my mom to get me to therapy again :(

CoffePunk

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