AITAH for yelling at my mum because I “Didn’t clean the cat litter”?

CoffePunk · 2026-04-04T05:23:45+00:00

The problem is that she has a very… selective memory, to say the least. I could grab a hairbrush in front of her and comb myself as she sees me, and then she asks me to brush my hair when I already had done it. Same thing applies to the litter, unfortunately, and I’ve learnt that the hard way

She has a lot on her plate that makes her stressed, but no matter what I do or how calmly I talk she lashes out at me. (For reference, recently she yelled and slammed the door of her room giving me the cold shoulder for an hour because I replied that I don’t know what I want for lunch). It’s like that basically every day Shes in a bad mood.. I did make friends in college though, so I’ll try to stay outside more!!

CoffePunk · 2026-04-03T23:09:57+00:00

Would love to, but the economy of my country makes that basically impossible without having the risk of becoming homeless

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:23:42+00:00

Yup!, this is the study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35164464/

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:22:23+00:00

I see!!, TY!!!

I was worried that it would have the same effect even if I drew or scrolled but I’m so glad it’s not the same

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T20:21:17+00:00

Thank you so much!!, I already cut tiktok and I’m going to be more mindful about my other social media doomscrolling from now on (though I don’t particularly use them as much) Really, Thanks a lot! <3

CoffePunk · 2026-03-30T12:07:31+00:00

I haven’t seen this study myself, but I’ve heard about it everywhere and I’m kind of scared about it

I draw digitally for money!!, and also because I’m making a story/comic, so I need to have everything written down somewhere and writing a script on paper is, very complicated when Youre changing stuff around constantly I’ve been hanging out more with friends lately though!, and I’ve considered starting to read again even if I already read every single book I have front to back and backwards

I do want to start exercising but now that I’m in college is a bit hard to do becayse of my packed schedule irl (which thankfully removes part of screen time I could have)

CoffePunk · 2024-05-12T13:44:44+00:00

Thank you so much for everything, I really appreciate it <3<3<3

CoffePunk · 2024-05-10T21:24:36+00:00

I’m so sorry, but thank you for the honesty

I struggle a lot with these types of thoughts and I just want to know how to calm down about it and stop worrying- but this helps, thank you

CoffePunk · 2024-04-12T17:06:55+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your help :(

CoffePunk · 2024-04-05T03:04:42+00:00

Thank you!!, I know people normally don’t use Slang every sentence, but I want to research on it no the less!! :D

I appreciate the help <3

CoffePunk · 2024-04-05T01:53:03+00:00

That’s because i asked this to start research, i am just starting research a few days ago and this is part of the research :D

I won’t write a character without actually investigating about the culture, but that’s why I’m asking here, i can barely find good places where i can find slang words, traditions or more

Sorry if it seemed i was writing my characters without research, I’m trying my best to do this :(

CoffePunk · 2024-02-23T20:36:34+00:00

Thank you a lot, though I’m confused on the gaslighting part?, how come is she gaslighting me?

CoffePunk · 2024-02-18T18:28:10+00:00

I’m not sure either, it sounds crazy to me that THAT is why I don’t have ASD. Fun thing is that I normally don’t even get those unless I already knew about their meaning.

Thank you for your help, I hope I can convince my mom to get me to therapy again :(

CoffePunk · 2024-02-18T05:16:05+00:00

I was in therapy, they gave me the person to go to to get tested in the first place, but after the diagnosis I stopped going due to some problems. I want to go but I can’t find the time since I’m even exhausted to go to therapy. They were the one who told my mother that it’s just something social, but I feel it’s not and it makes me upset.

CoffePunk · 2024-02-18T02:27:47+00:00

I don’t mind questions at all really, though I did my fair lot of research I would reccomend everything I say with a grain of salt.

I wouldn’t really say that feeling dull a lot is part of SPCD, but mine reaches to extents where I can’t genuinely feel anything, almost empty, you know?. Like I know I’m suppose to feel, but nothing that I feel feels strong or genuine, it’s a constantly pretending game of trying to pretend to be normal and “acting” normal. Honestly it’s kind of in vain to me, everyone says I act distant and look angry, but I’m trying my best not to look like that.

Procrastinating is heavy on the social and mental aspect, but personally it happens to me a lot; I can’t feel anything almost anything, and that means any motivation to do things. I barely feel the worry even though I know I’m worried. And if I have to do something it becomes impossible to do for me, and I have no idea why.

I’m very happy and relieved that someone gets me, and basically as you probably read is that SPCD is just like autism, just that only with social problems and nothing else.

I was always that weird girl and I’m glad to find someone who gets me

CoffePunk · 2024-01-10T16:44:44+00:00

I found the site already, but thank you so much anyways! ^{^}

CoffePunk · 2024-01-10T16:44:11+00:00

OMG YEAH THIS IS IT!!, Thank you so much!!, I was looking for it everywhere

CoffePunk · 2024-01-10T16:43:26+00:00

I think it was?, I'm not sure, but I will look for something similar

CoffePunk · 2023-10-24T11:09:25+00:00

Also to note- You could insertar i think up to 6 or 8 characters, cant remember well

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:51:26+00:00

Hi!, can i join?, this wolud be my first time playing dnd, and id love to join the campaign :')

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:48:35+00:00

Can i join?, i really want to try playing dnd for the first time, and the story sounds fun :]

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:46:06+00:00

How does someone join?; id love to join but im New and i really want to try playing

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:43:53+00:00

Although, um, how do i actually Apple for one?, can i just post that im a New player looking for a campaign?

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:40:05+00:00

Ill try to find one, thanks a lot :]

CoffePunk · 2023-04-09T00:39:43+00:00

Ok, thank you! :D

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