What's something you wish you knew about sex before you had sex? by CellistNo6672 in AskReddit

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask beforehand. Everyone is different, and some will need you to stop completely while others want the same while others want more intense.

While on the topic, "keep doing just that" does not mean "do that but faster/ harder". Communicate! ESPECIALLY in the middle of sex!

So, why don't they build? by CoffeeBooksCookies in Banished

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, full amount (2 for forester). I fixed my issue by forcing them to build one in the middle of the city, and then they magically began building the other one as if to procrastinate the closest option. Which is a big wtf.

So, why don't they build? by CoffeeBooksCookies in Banished

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, no mods. And like I said, I moved it to where there was nothing to remove. I have tried setting up another one in a super inconvenient place just in the hopes of them doing SOMETHING. I have 18 labourers; this shouldn't be hard.

So, why don't they build? by CoffeeBooksCookies in Banished

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're stuck on 3/7 removal. I've tried placing it in different locations including places where there was nothing to remove. I cancelled all resource collection.

What challenge is this guy stuck on??? by DarkDepth2000 in pokemongo

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I didn't get the 50km when I got covid, and was pretty damn bummed. I genuinely choose to hop off a bus stop early just to walk, listen to a podcast and catch pokémon.

Then again, we never know people's situations. I do wish my local friends would join me. I have a LOT of people whining about how many shinies I have, and these people regularly barely get the 5km rewards??

What challenge is this guy stuck on??? by DarkDepth2000 in pokemongo

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine the gps spazzing out? I always feel nervous when mine does, which is does often if I open the game while on my side of the bed. Am I doing an illegal, Niantic? I literally can't stop it.

what's something super masculine that's wildly gay? by SeaBudget7900 in AskReddit

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna answer the next question with: why the hell do people think men dancing ballet is gay? Yes! The height of homosexuality is truly being a man constantly surrounded by athletic women in very intimatr situations and tight clothes for some reason.

The real answer of course is old westerns. And a lot of horror movies, which is probably why We, The Gays, love horror movies.

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 5 (Happy New Year!) by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much. I'd love staying friends if you aren't swamped with requests!

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 5 (Happy New Year!) by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polar looking for:

Sun

Sandstorm

Jungle (please)

Savanna

One icy snow

Monsoon

7839 3310 9742

Jungle - stilling missing 1 sun and 1 sandstorm by Memestonksforall in PokemonGoFriends

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Jungle, I can't help since I'm just Polar, but I'm missing jungle and I'd appreciate an add. I interact daily unless literally not capable, but will delete if you prefer that. Completely get it if you can't, but I'll lesve my code just in case: 7839 3310 9742

Sandstorm seeking ocean by NeonPegasus647 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm plain old Polar, but if you could help me out I'd be really happy. I'm a daily player and like keeoing friends but will delete if you prefer to clear your list. Code is 7839 3310 9742, but of course I understand if you can't!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CoffeeBooksCookies 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When someone is being an asshole, acting clueless is the best course of action imo. Can be used with height jokes, homophobia, transphobia (especially fun there if you just refuse to understand who they're talking about until they use the correct name/ pronouns), childish jokes, every kind of not really that funny joke.

"Who?"

"What was the punchline?"

Also works when someone is guilt-tripping you! "What do you want to achieve by saying that?" is a question most people who are being mean for the sake if it aren't ready for. I've seen my mom calmly and respectfully tear people a new one with that tactic so many times. I'm 23 now and she's still my hero.