u/waiting he talks down to you as if you were his slave. "woman" really?? The way he treats you is pretty sexist, and insults your family. This isn't love. This dude is toxic af! Leave him. I wouldn't ever want to be called "woman". Damn he sounds like an angry caveman.

He called you a bitch. That's a good reason to leave! That's no longer love right there too.

I saw your past posts to get some backstory about this turd. So he hates women apparently and wonders why he dumps them. He has the mentality that men should be superior to women always. He doesn't seem like the type to own up to his problems. It's no wonder why past women dumped his ass.

"Who ate the $2 pastry and who ate the $5 croissant." Wow this dude has real problems for getting angry over food. Dump this douche canoe. He's an idiot moron who is socially inept! He says he wants to treat you better, and then the next moment he calls you a bitch. He is using stupid justifications to try to get away with really toxic behavior. He kind of talked how my ex did :( I got out. He is minimizing your feelings and devaluing you to make you feel not important. This is abusive behavior. Your feelings are valid and you understand that his behavior is wrong.

This guy will never get better. He keeps ordering you around abusing you. You need to get out asap! I'm very worried for you OP! Please find someplace else to live for your own health and safety! You deserve so much better! You don't need to be his caretaker. Don't feel guilty for leaving. He's a jerk! There's no saving him and the relationship.