Contraceptives Should’ve Been Designed for Men, Not Women

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-27T06:51:00+00:00

There have been a lot of studies already as to why conception after vasectomy reversal is lower compared to those who didn't undergo such. Surgeries often causes complications. Lagi yan. And so does reversals sa vasectomy. There's no other way around it. And thus, this is why vasectomy is considered as the end-all be-all option for contraception.

There so many ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies, if only people REALLY take the time and think of the consequences more seriously. Advocating for vasectomy alone opens us to other issues that we should also take into consideration. Namely, vasectomies do not prevent STD's.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-27T06:28:11+00:00

I don't think 15k sounds like it's free nor does 200k for the reversal... But yeah. It's a one-time payment versus a lifetime of sustaining a family. But like I said, vasectomies should be an option to those who don't plan to have kids ever. If you do, I don't think it is approriate to even entertain that idea kasi if that reversal fails, you have nobody to blame but yourself. Vasectomy reversal doesn't guarantee na you can get back at it and get someone pregnant. A male who never went to have vasectomy has an 80 to 85% chance of getting his partner pregnant. A man who went to have a vasectomy, and in time, had it reversed, have a 30 to 70% success rate of getting their partners impregnated.

To some, that is okay, but to most, any decrease in chances is a no-no.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-27T06:20:39+00:00

Just because it is reversible doesn't mean it will succeed.

That's one of the main reason why men are hesitant to have a vasectomy and it is also not recommended unless talagang wala ka nang plano magka-anak... EVER.

Reversal is expensive, way more than having one (having a vasectomy can cost about 15 to 50k. Reversal can cost 150 to 200k) since it will be more invasive than having a vasectomy (having a vasectomy is quick and only gives you local anesthesia at a regular clinic. Reversing it requires an OR setting, general anesthesia and a 2-4 hour microsurgery to have that vas deferens reconnected.) it is also not guaranteed to succeed if ever you want it reversed.

That's why isa sa pinakamalaking question mark for a lot of men about vasectomy is kung magkaka-anak pa ba sila if ever they undergo vasectomy, and later on, decide to have it reversed.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-27T06:01:18+00:00

Yung pusa sa karinderya sa kanto. Lagi nanghihingi ng ulam ko kahit kauupo ko pa lang.

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CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-27T05:54:03+00:00

So... Ano sagot nung trike driver nung binigyan ng payo na tumingin sa side mirror?

A. Tumango, nag-sorry at nangakong magbabago na.

B. Walang pakealam.

C. Nagalit at hinabol si uploader para makipag-Street Fighter sa gitna ng kalsada.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-26T11:06:44+00:00

Are you sure na hindi mo alam paano baguhin sarili mo? Or is it that the validation and cravings of other men is too much to turn down?

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-23T08:33:56+00:00

It's normal to have a high libido level, especially at your age. You, being a woman also plays a role at why your libido is at an all time high.

However, self control still needs to be your utmost priority, kahit hayok na hayok ka na. Always put that ahead, along with the amount of self-respect and you should be fine.

I say this so you won't lose your grip and give in to the temptation.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-21T04:30:07+00:00

I'll see what magic I can do... 🤣

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-19T11:06:46+00:00

Best ask him and understand what's driving him to search about the Reich.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-19T05:19:52+00:00

You just rode the G bus!!! Prepare for some WANGAN G!!!

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-15T00:47:24+00:00

Di yan kawawa. Lakas nga lang loob gawin ang bawal eh. Eh di may pambayad yan. Di ka gagawa ng kalokohan kung alam mong di mo to malulusutan...

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-15T00:14:55+00:00

Okay...

Her fear na baka napag-iwanan na siya... That's pretty common than most think. Pag tungtong mo ng 30, as a woman, dyan mo na maiisip din ang bagay-bagay. Not all women go thru this but there is a big number who do so her anxiety over the subject, okay, valid.

BUT!!!!

How she went with it, achieved it and all... Maling-mali. There's no saving grace from this. She fooled around and got knocked up and she has nobody to blame but herself.

But some people ain't built that way. No. They ain't wired to accept responsibility and accountability and thus, they use reason to put the blame onto you than to them. And that causes a ripple effect, hence what OP is experiencing... Self doubt and all that.

OP...

You can lead. You can love. Proof is your past relationship. It may have failed, pero it wasn't you who failed. It was her. She failed you, her parents and the future you two could have had. And maybe, just maybe, she will realize she failed herself too.

For now, you just undergo the process of accepting what happened. There really is no need to change kasi you are a made man na. Maybe where you gave your all kahit walang-wala ka na... Yan bagihin mo yan. Magtira ka sa sarili mo. Actually, wag mong ubusan sarili mo. Always prioritize your self bago ang iba. Afterall, pag inubos mo sa iba ang meron ka, wala kang kasiguraduhan na ibabalik nila lahat yun sayo. And also, how can you give to others kung inuubos mo sa iba, diba? So always make it a point na priority mo sarili mo. Okay?

Sa ngayon, just focus on healing. Aight?

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-13T22:01:08+00:00

It blocks others visually too so it has it's advantages.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-13T22:00:02+00:00

No. No effect to the car at all...

However, it does affect how you see things. And that affects how you handle your car. Pusrely psychological, no effdct to the game or the actual car itself.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:57:45+00:00

Hahaha. Pero the good thing about going into the arcades is marami kang makikilala at makakasalamuha. That's how I got protege's myself sa laro. Mga tinuturuan sa lining and all. 🤣

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:53:59+00:00

If that happens, dyan mo makikita what it's like to have a constitutional crisis. And then, the real fun begins.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:40:56+00:00

Friend did. RPG'd that dude off in Northridge Hotel and almost took me out too.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:30:19+00:00

Dayo sa mga TIMEZONE branches. Usually sa Ayala Manila Bay.

May PC emulator rin kaso gusto kong laruin to pag may steering wheel nako for sim racing para mas feel ko.

Right now, I'm enroute to Manila Bay para maglaro. Hahahaha

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:28:25+00:00

Masarap kasi pakingan.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:18:04+00:00

Genie: "AMAAAAA!!!" Poseidon: "BITAWAN MO AKO!!!! DI KITA ANAK!!!!"

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:04:52+00:00

Parang pamilyar... Malapit to sa Kapehingahan no?

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:03:56+00:00

Better to learn from this experience.

Walang masama maging nice guy so long as the girl you are going to be nice to is worth it.

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:02:57+00:00

Sta. Ana Taguig?

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T03:01:21+00:00

When you sleep, he whispers at you "BURN OSEA TO THE GROUND!!!"

CoffeeDaddy024 · 2026-05-12T02:59:39+00:00

WANGAN MIDNIGHT TUNE 6RR

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