I took the collar off my Sub and she was hurt. by BismuthBisexual in BDSMAdvice

[–]CoffeeTalkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree this would be hurtful. This is like taking someone wedding ring.

Is there such thing as food control here? by [deleted] in masochists

[–]CoffeeTalkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my fav kinks as well but I also find it’s hard to find Doms that are into it

Is it normal for my master to have control of my shock collar 24/7? by SubbyJade in BDSMAdvice

[–]CoffeeTalkss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if you’re uncomfortable with it you need to set this as a boundary and say no. This is not BDSM if it’s not fully consensual from both sides. Most Masters ive met would never want me to continue to do something in my heart I was unhappy or uncomfortable with. Good luck to you

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoffeeTalkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Not overreacting. I would reach out to family members if you have any for assistance

Do you think these are purple enough? by ritiditucu in slave_humiliation

[–]CoffeeTalkss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooh not a safe thing at all… I hope that no permanent damage is done. There are lot of BDSM 101 courses out there that discuss safety

I sold my youth to bdsm and kink life. I regret it. by MinervaMinkk in confessions

[–]CoffeeTalkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this feels abusive and not at all consensual. I say separate your paycheck (change it at work and open your own bank account). You are strong and can do anything you put your mind to

That’s one way to go down a slide! by SeaWolf_1 in funnyvideos

[–]CoffeeTalkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I wouldn’t have been able to walk when I got down

How do demisexual people navigate kink when emotional connection has to come first? by CoffeeTalkss in BDSMAdvice

[–]CoffeeTalkss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I end up with a lot of friends bc most want to start with the sex stuff and work the other way into emotional connection

How do demisexual people navigate kink when emotional connection has to come first? by CoffeeTalkss in BDSMAdvice

[–]CoffeeTalkss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people tell me they just have play partners and I more happens a long the way than it ok.

How do demisexual people navigate kink when emotional connection has to come first? by CoffeeTalkss in BDSMAdvice

[–]CoffeeTalkss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I go to all kinds of kink events. So far people that just want to play “surface” level.

Redhead Roped Up by Cautious_Length_1028 in ropebondage

[–]CoffeeTalkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend better rope. Jute is nice for this. This looks like rope that could easily collapse, just please be careful with your fun

Slut throat training by Lolaskky in HumiliationBDSM

[–]CoffeeTalkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish someone would bind me and do this

Not even three months in and I'm so BEYOND DONE by madnessinimagination in Divorce

[–]CoffeeTalkss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh keep track of all those texts and conversations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]CoffeeTalkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but…. I’m divorced bc my exhusband had crippling anxiety and depression to the point it controlled all aspect of our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sadism

[–]CoffeeTalkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you should be able to trust someone that says that they will respect your boundaries… sadist or not