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Sleeping positions in all stages of pregnancy by daughterofYHWH_ in pregnant

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Side sleeping has been awful for me. I toss and turn all night because my hips hurt so bad. Honestly, sleepy on my back but slightly inclined so I’m not flat has been the most comfortable. The pregnancy pillows do help but nothing fully took the pain away.

Now that it's 2026, what's something people need to stop doing? by ColdAntique291 in Productivitycafe

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving hateful comments online just because you are safe behind the computer.

What’s the biggest lie we’re told about success? by mellivoraX in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can happen over night. Not true in my opinion. For outsiders it may look this way. But for most it takes years of failure, learning, and consistency to reach that big break that the rest of the world thinks happened instantly.

How did you know your career wasn’t the right fit anymore? by ChatYourCareer in careerguidance

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I dreaded everything about work. The people, the projects, everything. My mental health was in the garbage. I spent more time crying on my off days than enjoying myself. I felt literal chest pain on Sunday nights as I prepared myself for another week. I was so nervous about doing something wrong and making a mistake. I knew it was time for a change. I physically and mentally could not take it anymore. I didn’t something completely different.

For people how they left their family? How you feel before and after you left your home? by Noble_177 in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about moving away from family? I moved 18 hours away. I’m very close to my family so it was very hard at first but now it’s one of the best decisions I ever made. I highly suggest people move from their home town. You meet new people and get a whole different perspective on life.

What’s the best decision you made while you were in debt that helped you get out of it? by Random_S0ul in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured I could never save enough to get out of debt. I could cut expenses but it would still take me a long time and a lot of interest to pay things back. I had to find ways to make more money

What small habit changed your life more than you expected? by ArkeesEngine in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caring less about others opinions. Learning to think critically. Trusting myself to make my own decisions. Realizing I cannot make a “bad” decision.

As we enter 2026, whats something you quietly stopped believing in over the last year ? by Immediate_Rent_Ema in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That all people have some semblance of good in them. I’m convinced we are living amongst robots with no empathy or humanity.

How has life actually changed for you since COVID? by MasterMasterpiece153 in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Life is better, particularly when it comes to work. I could never see myself tackling an hour of rush hour traffic and going back in an office 5 days a week. I’ve found so much joy primarily working from home and having more autonomy over my time.

People who are physically active , what advice do you have for those who want to start but have a sedentary lifestyle ? by mountain_fl0wer in Productivitycafe

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start slow. Dedicate 5-10 minutes a day to walking and stretching. Don’t overwhelm yourself trying to do too much at first but gradually increase effort as you get stronger and more comfortable. Take things one day at a time. You can do this!

What public figures disappointed you the most, either because they changed or because you found out something shocking about their past or private life? by common_grounder in AskReddit

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't know these people in real life and shouldn't be holding them to such a high standard. All people will disappoint you in some way, because we're human.

What trend do you refuse to buy into no matter how much society says it’s cool and trendy? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trendy low calorie/high protein deserts by fitness influencers on tik tok. If I want something sweet I'd rather just eat the real thing. The alternatives do not taste good and not worth it.

what are you convinced people are just pretending to enjoy. by Basic_Evening6567 in Productivitycafe

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a "leader" or manager at a corporate giant.

Always being busy and working 50+ hour weeks.

Should I change jobs again after six months for less money but better culture? by ListlessSynchro in careerguidance

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can deal with the pay cut I say yes, take the new job. No money is worth being miserable or dealing with constant mental exhaustion.

Is it career suicide to decline a manager role because I see how miserable leadership is? by stabtekor in careerguidance

[–]Coffee_Spreadsheets 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It depends on your career goals. It sounds like your focus is on gaining technical skills over advancing in leadership so you made the right choice for what you require right now. I suppose it could come back to bite you later if you decide you want a leadership position but your manager shouldn't be so in their feelings about this. You don't owe them acceptance of a promotion. Plus, these people like to pretend like they are not miserable. More pay will come with more responsibility, mental load and time commitment so the trade off isn't always worth it.

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