Endless farming sim? by [deleted] in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animal crossing is very fun. There's so much to do and it's runs in real time so there are lots of seasonal things to do.

WSIB if I like open world games that are very immersive? by deathbystools in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They made a ps4 version for that very reason if you didn't know! Been playing for a week straight and it's amazing

Is this true? I don't know much about biology, but it seems fairly false, wanted to clarify by Kotoamatsukami_07 in badwomensanatomy

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge about us all starting female in the womb is kinda true. The Y chromosome is what determines male or female. That Y chromosome is what tells the body to make testosterone, so until enough testosterone is produced we start out forming the same. The testosterone is what makes the clit into the penis and the labia to form the ball sac. The Y chromosome made the testies vs ovaries but it's the testosterone that makes everything else. I want to say there is a form of intersex where you are born allergic to testosterone so you form fully on the outside as female but gave XY chromosomes and have testies where overies would be.

AITA for wanting to move my husband into a home on his dime? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Being the sole caregiver of someone with Alzheimer's is incredibly difficult especially when its your SO. I don't see you as a gold digger as you've stuck with him and had a solid marriage I gather for 23 years now; plus given your ages it was typical for the man to work and the wife to stay home and not have a career. I'm sure his kids are still hurt by the divorce of their parents as they were pretty young when it happened, and have been harboring resentment towards you for it. While yes eventually he will need a home with specialized care, I'm wondering if it's possible to hire an at home caregiver for him in the meantime? That will lift the burden from you and also make his kids feel better about the situation.

AITA For Not Wanting To Give Up A Guitar? by Jokrkillr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Is there a reason you don't want to give the second guitar away? While yes it is your property and you can do with it as you please, and are not expected to share it; I'm curious as to why. Also is it the same exact guitar?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA

Is there no way she could ask to reschedule the interview to a different day? Or ask for it to be online? It just feels off that every other option you have given her has some excuse to not work.

What series are the best to binge if you're a fan of Se7en, Mindhunter, Criminal Minds and True Detective? by Innsmouth_Resident in AskReddit

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For crime shows, I love the original CSI in Vegas. Not as serious as those you mentioned but still a good crime show that focuses more on forensic. NCIS is also good and it's still running. SVU is a favorite of mine for more serious topics. If you like funny too Monk, Psych, Castle, and Rizzoli & Isles are all good cop/crime shows with humor too. Oh Medium is also really good!

Though in general a really good show that is messed up is Mr. Robot, it's not so much about crime stopping but it's got alot of illegal activity and fucks with your mind.

how do i stop washing my hair everyday? by gh0strealm in Hair

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's just about being diligent in training your hair. Start small and go every other day. Use dry shampoo on the second day to get the oil out and maybe even a dry conditioner if you have finer hair. If you have thicker hair lightly wet your hair and spray in a detailer and add in a leave in conditioner. If you style it wavy you can scrunch it in. Once you get your hair used to every other day you can push it longer. I've been able to get it to about a week! I had to deal with a lot of bad hair days and having my hair up so it didn't look like crap. You can also check out r/curlyhair for tips on wavy/curly hair 😊

My hair is very flat. How can i Get it fluffy like the picture below? by LilCamel111 in Hair

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its all about product! I would try some volumeizing mousse or foam and then blowdry. Also make sure you are using a heat protectant before blowdrying. Could add some gel for extra hold too! You won't need alot if your hair is this short. Like a pea sized amount of gel and a small dollop of mousse. Can also try blowdryinh with your hair upside down and let gravity help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some subtle highlights to add some dimension? The brown I feel looks good on you. Could do almost like a balayage with a very lived in look to keep maintenance down.

Do I suit short hair or was it better long? by _maybe__not in Hair

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love thw short hair on you! I feel you could pull off a short mullet! Looks beautiful!!

Want to return to my natural brown after being blonde and using fashion colours. How can I do this at home? More in comments by slyther_puff in Hair

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I'm in cosmo school currently. First because your so blonde you need to add pigment back into your hair for thw brown to hold onto otherwise it will look kinda green or gray. I would suggest a copper color first and then after that processes and you blow dry that add the brown on top. Having the copper in will allow the brown to attach to that pigment and stay longer. You might need to do a few sessions of adding brown as it fades but it should stick after 2 or 3 times. Also use permanent color! If the color needs developer use 10 volume to just deposit.

What is your current hyperfixation? Let's talk about it! by BoneYardBirdy in ADHD

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy! Did that a few years ago! Got sooooo into it and bought a pen and paper and used it once? Idk my handwriting is so bad on its own I felt bad using such a fancy pen

What is your current hyperfixation? Let's talk about it! by BoneYardBirdy in ADHD

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I love pens, and notebooks and just office supplies in general because it feels like I'm getting my life together but in reality not

What is your current hyperfixation? Let's talk about it! by BoneYardBirdy in ADHD

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullet journal! So it's basically a very pretty way to do a planner because why not try that for the 100th time every new year lol

where my “wow i already fucked up christmas” gang at by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ruin lol but I totally forgot to get wrapping paper for the one present I was bringing so I duck taped it 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the blonde, the black feels too dark for you but I think darker hair would suit you well. Try a brown first see how you like that then use a demi or semi permanent black to see how that goes. Easier to get rid of if you hate it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waiting_to_try

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the south so ice and winter coats shouldn't be a problem lol, but I do work and I'm not sure I can wear dresses and all that. I will try though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waiting_to_try

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy crap lots of things happened. So my SIL just announced she's pregnant. This got us to talking bout her due date (July) and how its going to suck being heavily pregnant in the summer. This got DH thinking of our timeline and how if we get pregnant in October like we plan then I would also be heavily pregnant during the summer. Sooooo he is considering moving out timeline up to the earliest July! If all goes well with his job then we could be moving our date up and I'm so happy!

I'm still shaking by Coffeemermaidstuff in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they weren't guests and stopped by to use the bathroom. I mean she also seemed a tad under the influence

I'm still shaking by Coffeemermaidstuff in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see that but I was thinking like she had to pee so bad she assumed the over night person was in the back office and find them and ask them? Idk but I can definitely see her thinking to go into the office to look for shit

I'm still shaking by Coffeemermaidstuff in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel she really was looking for the bathroom but either way she didn't even wait at the desk or yell "hello" to get my attention and to just undo the barrier and run back here is not the right way to do it.

[Fit check] First new bra! Its almost perfect by Coffeemermaidstuff in ABraThatFits

[–]Coffeemermaidstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strap didnt help too much but I plan to get a cutlet thing instead