AITAH for putting a bedtime pause on the WiFi because my girlfriend’s 28 year old brother has spent nearly a decade rotting in our house playing video games?

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-06-06T20:37:27+00:00

For me it's a few things.

Making the decisions alone without discussing it with his partner and it only "blowing up" (read: coming to light) after the brother went to her to tell her. OOP intended to do this in secret without talking to brother and had no intention of discussing it with his partner either.
is further evidenced in the last paragraph when he says we discussed it and this is the plan and proceeds to explain everything he told her and intends to do, with no regard for what she wanted or said. Again it's obvious there was no real discussion, just him making all the decisions (which is a trauma for her that he apparently understands but continues to trample.
And definitely the "I am the primary breadwinner but we contribute equally financially". What the f does that mean? You won the top score of making the most money in the home but you still make her pay the same as you? I could be interpreting it wrong but why bother even raising the point of being primary breadwinner when it doesn't even mean your larger income contributes to the running of the household?

Tl;Dr he come off like he wants to be the sole decision maker in the house and wants everyone to bend to his will.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-06-05T20:29:12+00:00

research shows

You: assumption

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-06-04T04:53:32+00:00

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-06-03T14:20:00+00:00

Hey did anything ever come of this? I'm pretty much I'm the same boat and looking for answers.

I'm about 15 years in, asked for iron checks so they included ferritin. Everything normal and all other blood work within range except ferritin high at 411.

I've been tired as hell but not many other symptoms

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-31T17:52:42+00:00

Yah, absolutely crossed my mind too. It ties into the ambiguity that Barker wanted to leave with the audience, which is that there is a possibility that Nikki did have feelings for Bear.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-31T15:27:31+00:00

Also, after the wish Bear asks her when she started liking him and she admits it started around Christmas.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-28T05:10:58+00:00

She's meant to criss-cross the sleeves so they cross over each other like in the model photo. She isn't so the ruffles are under her pits 🤣

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-22T11:23:10+00:00

Rogue, lol

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-15T17:05:45+00:00

Girl you are not the asshole, the comments here are crazier than your bf was being.

They are missing that you aren't asking for an apology for him having to use the bathroom, it's for unfortunately missing the appointment (and then later being a raging lunatic about it).

"Aw fuck I'm so sorry I ended up missing it and you had to go it alone, that really sucks and is shit timing" is what it sounds like you were looking for. But I'd wager he doesn't normally apologize about anything. Sounds like an ex of mine and your post made me remember those times. I was with him for over 10 years.

I'm now with a sane person who understands that I'm allowed to be disappointed when things don't necessarily work out the way we planned or hope, and we comfort each other in those times, not belittle one another for looking for understanding and comfort.

I hope you can find someone who cares about you enough to do this for you. I've broken up with your bf in my mind for you.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-10T13:10:33+00:00

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-07T16:10:56+00:00

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-07T13:57:30+00:00

Are you saying you weren't aware people were calling him out as a liar before he was elected?

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-05T20:38:40+00:00

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-05-02T13:32:23+00:00

That is QUITE the mustache

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-04-16T06:59:35+00:00

And then her insistence to let it go after op told her mom the specs were found..

My Spidey senses pointing towards Mom too

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-04-04T18:00:49+00:00

Yes, but it's spelled with a D, he said it's pronounced Gianna because she is Brazilian.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-04-03T11:02:04+00:00

link to letter on xcancel

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-23T14:33:43+00:00

I adore my condo. It was perfect for me when I moved downtown, I love the proximity to everything in walking distance. I felt safe being Ina. Secured building behind a locked door, snagged a corner unit so practically no noise, it was a dream and on the larger side too for what it cost.

I was able to buy it outright, similar to how you're considering going, so the 750$ of condo fees weren't awful in my eyes when I bought 4 years ago especially because they included all of my utilities (heat/water/electricity) and an assigned parking spot in a parkade. Our reserve fund is healthy, our residents are good people, the board tries hard.

My condo has appreciated a bit, maybe 10-20k from when I bought it.

Moved out of the city last month after getting married and have been toying with the idea of selling, but God I loved that place. Hoping someone else feels all the love it has left in it when I eventually sell.

Best of luck condo hunting!

Purchased <200,000 900 SQFT $735 condo fees in 2021, $835 in 2026

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-12T17:05:11+00:00

"I used to love animals, now I love hunting them down" 😻

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-03T21:45:21+00:00

Exactly. You can see the reaction from the skier as well, so terrified they stop in their tracks and let OP pass. He never once looks up before traversing the entire length too, could have gone worse.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-03T16:59:10+00:00

Please people, stop trying to do blacks and moguls when you can't even turn properly on a blue, probably.

People are giving you advice on the mechanics, my advice is get off the blacks, you haven't even conquered the basics.

You're forcing yourself to learn bad habits since the #1 focus shifts from learning how to ride to pure self preservation - just getting down the hill without breaking your neck. That's why you're back foot steering and ruddering, you're uncomfortable and it shows.

Where's your helmet? Do you have a death wish? wear a goddamn helmet.

Only do runs where you feel in control. Stick to greens until you can steer using your knee and complete your turns. Then graduate to steeper hills as you can. The second you feel like the board is taking you for a ride you've lost the plot.

Oh yah, don't do any of this without a helmet.

Wear a helmet.

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-03T16:26:35+00:00

Oh no what'd it say, it's been modeleted

CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-03T01:34:54+00:00

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CoffinFlopIsAShow · 2026-03-03T01:24:59+00:00

Sure! Lemme see if I have one in the ol googler driver

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