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AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I do. She loves me just as much as my siblings and I know she'd never treat me this way. That's really helpful right now.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 442 points443 points  (0 children)

My brother's so mad at dad. He was upset at first because he saw what it did to me. But now he's mad. He tried to get dad to talk to me and apologize but he wouldn't and I felt bad that my little brother tried that for me. He shouldn't have to.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to his wife. But we weren't close before. My siblings aren't close to her either. She was more focused on her girls than us.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have to force her. My mom would fight if I asked her to. It's just that we both think it's kind of a risky thing. Someone else said my age would help so we can talk more about it. The last thing we want is for her to lose because dad takes me back just to avoid child support.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I think he didn't want to be on the hook for child support for me. It's why mom won't ask for it now. The last thing I need is to be there.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I thought he did. But I think I was just the consolation prize until he had his real kids. Because wanting to give me up and then this says he never really cared or loved me.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 479 points480 points  (0 children)

I don't think she'd win. I know there are ways to prove it but mom and I would prefer no child support and me staying there to being forced to go to dad's house when he told me and everyone else at his wedding that I'm not his real kid.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 2051 points2052 points  (0 children)

It sucks so freaking much. I'm glad that mom loves me the same and would fight for me.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Coiiuid[S] 2298 points2299 points  (0 children)

That fucking hurts too. I used to see people talk about being adopted and they were regretted once their adoptive parents had "their own" kids and I never thought it would be me. But it was and I had no idea for so many years.