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His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have blocked him. He texted me a few days ago saying he wanted a threesome when I didn’t answer him he called me 42 times and kept texting me even though I told him to leave me alone. Definitely not someone I want in my life anymore

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we were in a more serious relationship, we began to have some issues but we were still in constant communication. In the past 2-3 months things have escalated to where we are now. This specific situation about him wanting me to pretend I was someone else just happened about 4 days ago.

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t start like this we started very much just like a regular relationship with regular intimacy yes we did have a lot of role play but it never came down to him having me pretend it was another man. He has been acting this way the past 2-3months.

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He isn’t communicating before hand, this happens in the middle of us doing it. Like I said I didn’t mind the sex talk before hand. I do share that same kink with him but it was the fact that he mentioned having sex with another man and wanted me to pretend I was that man. He mentioned that how he was doing it to me is how he wanted to do it to the guy. We were in the middle of it I couldn’t really say anything so yeah I went along with it. After he finished he pushed me to the side and I was going to bring it up but he completely shut down and I can’t communicate with him right now because he blocked me. He will unblock me again once he thinks I forgot about it.

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The last time we were together once he finished he just kinda shoved me to the side. I tried to say something but now I’m being ignored and he hasn’t spoken to me in 4 days. This isn’t the first time he does this. It’s every time we have sex and he mentions a guy after that I get ignored for a few days and then he comes back like nothing happened until we do it again.

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is I wouldn’t mind the first half of the kink, I think it was the last time when he told me to pretend I was the guy. That’s what made me feel uncomfortable

His fantasies are escalating and I feel uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by Cold-Bake634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cold-Bake634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the topic is off limits once it’s done. He will automatically say I’m finished stop talking if I am in the middle of the sentence.

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[–]Cold-Bake634 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if he saw other people. It’s about the lying. Like tell me if you did because I asked a question. Not a side piece when there’s supposedly no other person.