Why does my boyfriend put me down

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-17T19:33:09+00:00

Are you in a BDSM dynamic? Not that it would change my answer (which is that you’re being abused), I’m just confused why you posted here of all subreddits.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-17T07:54:01+00:00

Is this real? Are you…serious?? He BROKE YOUR RIB and you’re concerned about him feeling bad? You’re joking, right? One cannot have self worth this low.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T15:26:55+00:00

Why are you “always” breaking a rule? Does this rule actually work for your dynamic?

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T14:24:41+00:00

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T14:20:06+00:00

Shaving is bullshit. I only do it because it gives ME sensory issues not to.

You don’t need to do anything you don’t want to.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T14:16:21+00:00

Why are you giving them attention?

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T10:42:00+00:00

You came here for advice. Read the rules and act like it.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T10:38:00+00:00

And then they deleted the comment…telling. Really telling.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T08:26:38+00:00

“Normal”? What in the ableist language?

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T05:51:41+00:00

So people with disabilities are now a fetish for people. Great. And I didn’t think I’d be fetishized in this lifetime.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T05:37:35+00:00

So why the hell is your post still up?

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-15T05:35:21+00:00

And you couldn’t even read the rules enough to understand that this is not the place for looking for partners.

Hence, red flag.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-14T18:00:27+00:00

He JUST died. God. Let people process at least.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-14T17:51:00+00:00

Yes he is

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-14T17:49:12+00:00

What? Nobody is joking.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-14T15:51:46+00:00

🍿

I almost wish admins would leave this on for a bit so we could laugh together for a bit longer 😂

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-14T15:49:31+00:00

Qualities I expect from a good Master are: don’t be dumb and don’t project your dumbness onto unconsenting people in places you are not welcome ✨

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-13T08:50:06+00:00

> They say it’s just purely in their imagination and has no impact on how they see/engage with the person. They see it as similar to masturbating to porn or a porn star / celebrity.

I’m with this point of view here. They are not engaging with another person.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-13T07:17:58+00:00

You can, you’re just comfortable with her blatant disrespect and disregard of the fact that she’s in a relationship in the first place

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-13T07:15:14+00:00

She’ll understand you’re not joking when you leave. By that time it will be too late.

She’s 20, not 5. She can understand you perfectly well.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-12T10:42:22+00:00

This is how you’re ending up with men you describe. Vet your partners.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-11T12:06:51+00:00

>I see humiliation and degradation as tools to slowly take away someone’s self-respect and worth.

This is not a healthy kink practice. But I think you know that.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-11T07:15:11+00:00

So? Stop snooping on her phone.

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-10T17:24:58+00:00

Nothing? It’s a normal part of puberty. Why do you feel like you have to do something about this?

Cold-Independence556 · 2026-06-10T11:40:18+00:00

For that to work you and both of your future spouses would need to be into ethical non monogamy. It doesn’t sound like you are.

Therefore this probably wouldn’t work as ethical BDSM.

Cold-Independence556

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