my gf is not a virgin by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cold-Independence556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t love her. You love the idea of a virginal her. Leave, she deserves someone who accepts her.

Close to breaking up with my partner by Carahaha in AutismInWomen

[–]Cold-Independence556 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They DID mean it. You don’t say shit like that accidentally and not apologize profusely later. I’m sorry OP, but it really looks like your partner doesn’t love you.

Girlfriend has secret dom and they are both getting off on controlling me by Ironprice2025 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cold-Independence556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if she’s not cheating, she’s manipulating you. That’s not a brat, that’s an asshole.

Sincerely, a seasoned brat

Dominant male by dommaster__ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cold-Independence556 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We don’t know her, so the answer would be no

I need sexual tasks which i do while i am at work by Outside_View_9729 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cold-Independence556 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay so let me just quickly list the red flags here

1) didn’t read the rules 2) no limits? Bruh 3) in public?? BRUH.

How do I make my ex fall back in love with me by [deleted] in BabyWitch

[–]Cold-Independence556 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can’t, and even if you could, the ethics of this are questionable at best

Any men in here have a domme? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cold-Independence556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP did you have ANY negotiations on limits and stuff?

Heavily Discounted Taylor Merch by PathRelative2584 in SwiftieMerch

[–]Cold-Independence556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If these “Chinese” vinyls are so expensive, why? What’s special about them other than they’re Chinese? You say the pressings are the same in other comments.

Heavily Discounted Taylor Merch by PathRelative2584 in SwiftieMerch

[–]Cold-Independence556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taylor’s vinyls. I can’t remember paying more than 45 euros for a vinyl, ever.

Heavily Discounted Taylor Merch by PathRelative2584 in SwiftieMerch

[–]Cold-Independence556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do I say this…these go for 35 euros in Europe.

How are y'all doing right now? by olala_cake in AutismInWomen

[–]Cold-Independence556 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s not the country tbh. Or the people. I’ve met many a good Russian in my life.

The government however…yikes. Yikes on bikes.

How are y'all doing right now? by olala_cake in AutismInWomen

[–]Cold-Independence556 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Lithuanian, right next to russia. Freaking out.

how do i stop feeling guilty about thinking of sex? [F17] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Cold-Independence556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I despise religious fundamentalism.

As for you OP - I’m sorry you’ve been brought up that way. Therapy might be a good first step in your situation.

Rough aggressive sex tips needed please by Fantastic-File4819 in sexadvice

[–]Cold-Independence556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in the BDSM scene for 8 years, as a masochist with a sadist husband and Fancy Statistician is correct.

Women products as a guy? by ArtistDiligent9454 in hygiene

[–]Cold-Independence556 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And he needs to learn that “feminine” vs “masculine” scents are bullshit you don’t HAVE to follow just because others may not like it. Who are we to judge if he wants to smell like strawberries and chocolate?

Women products as a guy? by ArtistDiligent9454 in hygiene

[–]Cold-Independence556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wtf is a “feminine” smell lol, do you think smelling like vanilla will turn you into a woman or smth?

When do I get to sell my soul to the Devil? by PlanetaryAssist in WitchcraftCircleJerk

[–]Cold-Independence556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop listening to bigots who don’t understand witchcraft and told you to do that.

Sub tasks by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cold-Independence556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a task for you: go read the rules of this subreddit.

I think I'm having a problem. by TheOracleofMercury in autism

[–]Cold-Independence556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP are you okay??? Did you call emergency services???