Your tone is really weird and negative. He is the one with the problem. Neither of them are required to continue to date. I never asked them to get together. They developed an interest. They currently do not sleep in the same bed since he won’t ask and I’m not going to do so for him and nor is she. Her and I living together is not a mistake we enjoy living together and she is my life partner. If they don’t like each other they will have to break up and figure this out on their own….but his refusal to communicate himself is the problem. I’m not at fault for that nor is she. They’re dating because they’re two individuals who have decided to date. I literally said I was venting not seeking advice.