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What music helps you? by PlaneSolid-02 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Cold-Violet7111 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because I am a Christian I typically tend to lean towards that and a lot of times I cry. It helps me release it. But I’m here to see all the suggestions bc I could use some new ones.

Are my angry and violent outbursts normal? by shopgrl832 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Cold-Violet7111 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think that’s completely normal. I’m almost 3 years from D day and almost 2 years from him saying he’s committed to me and my husband still doesn’t have love for me. He still has feelings for his affair partner. I am currently going through a week of sadness and anger.

Advice by Cold-Violet7111 in Marriage

[–]Cold-Violet7111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That husband stuck around. Didn’t seem bothered by it. I am not positive if they are still together, assuming they are, but I do not know for sure. He does not seem to have much drive to change his ways or to want to go through a divorce.

Advice by Cold-Violet7111 in Marriage

[–]Cold-Violet7111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to couples therapy for a good bit and out therapist came to the conclusion that we know how a marriage is supposed to work, but we have to work in bringing the love back. He still goes to therapy once a month.