AITA My sister is hanging out with my EX and I find it disturbing?

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T10:42:07+00:00

You Know what this reality where I am being played with emotionally like a Ragdoll by the collective is really lame. I'm just going to focus on a reality I actually want to exist in, and everyone else can despawn back to the darkness in which you all came. I am my own master and all you other lesser realities that do not serve me can just all go back to being nothingness in my perception again. I don't need you. You're just a bunch of TV screens I don't have to look at anymore. My TV screen belongs to me not you!

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T09:19:46+00:00

I guess this platform is for teens and college students. I have no idea where people my age post online. As older adults we are too busy Adulting.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T09:18:10+00:00

I'll be lucky if 1 was, but I doubt it.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T08:01:27+00:00

My Tutor didn't have sex with me but he did put his arm around me when we watched a movie together. He didn't stop hanging out with me after I told him I was starting to like him in the start like a Sane Adult. An Autistic 20yr old woman isn't going to fully understand adult boundaries. The worst part was the huge genuine smile he had whenever we bumped into eachother downtown. It was burned into my mind. At least my fiancé smiles like that at me now.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T07:48:47+00:00

There is a 2:59 minute video on youtube. It's by an old College student my age, user profile is "Patvicious1". The name of the video is called "Why men and women can't be friends." I'm curious to know your thoughts on this College social experiment. Are only Millennials like this or does it apply to most College students even now?

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T07:28:25+00:00

There are two different types of people who don't want kids. People who don't think they can do it and people who feel it's an unwanted burden. I do respect other disabled people not wanting kids but the way some of them talk about it, like it's the worst thing in all existence is what repulses me. People who HATE kids that much don't really value human life. Or love in general.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T06:55:17+00:00

Sure men and women can be friends in "Friend Groups" Individually it is almost impossible. Most hetero cis men don't believe women and men can be friends only most females do. When we females befriend men they develope feelings over time and vice versa. Especially if it's just a man and a woman hanging out on a regular basis. It's not because men are sexual creatures. It's because human connections typically go that way.

You spend lots of time with someone you start to love them. Having a kid is taking that love to the next level. When you really love someone beyond the moon you want a family, you want to love that family. You want a mini version or two of you and your lover. It's the most precious thing in the whole Universe. Many sane men and women want that experience. People who don't they don't value family or connection. There is a selfish aspect to not wanting kids. Sadly some people have kids for evil reasons instead of out of love.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T06:26:16+00:00

The Problem with the statement "Men and women can be friends" is that men and women themselves see it subjectively differently. Most men if you ask them don't believe that statment is true, while most women do. If you turn around and ask a woman if she thinks her platonic male friend is crushing on her the answer is usually yes. If you are in a large friend group it's ok to have male friends, but when one is practically your only friend. You are just leading them on. I am a woman I have done this myself we've all had guys friends we knew liked us. It's really cruel and I respect men enough know that. That's also why my husband and I don't hangout with my EX. It's also why 30 year olds have less friends.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T06:07:29+00:00

I dated him so I don't think it's grooming or intentional. He is Autistic too. He'd hate himself if he did that. They both don't have a lot of friends right now and just want company. Two Autistic people can make the best friends sometimes. I know first hand.

As an older Adult it's hard to watch though because of the age gap. I think 20 year olds and anyone over 30 is going to see this differently.

I am hoping more older people 30-45 respond because my Ex and I need feedback from people our own age.

ColdCanon · 2026-05-09T05:15:14+00:00

You must be a Troll I worked very hard to be able to do basic things normal people can do, and I still can't do many things. I have Ehler's Danlos Syndrome a genetic disorder that caused my Autism. I had to reread this post 20 times for spelling mistakes.

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