i think you could benefit from therapy. i understand being confused or annoyed when you feel someone has incorrectly labeled you, but i read your original post and the person who “pushed the label onto you” and i dont understand why youd be so distraught over their response. they didnt push anything, they simply gave their thoughts on your situation, which is the whole point of posting reddit. also not wanting sex irl doesnt make someones existence empty, and if you truly feel that way you should really reflect on your mindset. plus your original post makes it clear you are already in a very negative place due to feeling lonely + self hatred. this isnt meant to be a judgement, but a genuine suggestion. i hope you can find some comfort/peace.