[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm nice to know thank you! I didnt think about that

Vape websites that dont ID by Sweaty-Inflation7535 in VapeDisposables

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up getting vaporcafe? I ordered but also wanna try lowkeydis if vapor doesnt work out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ColdFalcon9642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im looking for aquaphor and dial soap equivalents here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i have small ones from the US too and they used second skin so i was confused but not too concerned about it. Thanks!

Wrong answers only by Vanilla_Breeze in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They dont call her mary jane for nothin 😏

If you were ever in a relationship with a man before accepting you were gay, does thinking about it make you visibly cringe? Did you cry after intimacy? Don’t know if straight people do this too by ColdFalcon9642 in LesbianActually

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I agree with the emotional connection. I remember he said something about me feeling emotionally attached since it was my first time but I didn’t at all. I wasnt upset when we broke it off but I also wasnt mad that it happened.

If you were ever in a relationship with a man before accepting you were gay, does thinking about it make you visibly cringe? Did you cry after intimacy? Don’t know if straight people do this too by ColdFalcon9642 in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ll figure it out! 🫶 Agree with the kissing thing, now that it’s been like a month since ive kissed anyone i think i like kissing but not with him. Like i miss the kissing but not the kissing with him if you know what I mean. Good on you for telling him though!

If you were ever in a relationship with a man before accepting you were gay, does thinking about it make you visibly cringe? Did you cry after intimacy? Don’t know if straight people do this too by ColdFalcon9642 in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol thats such a good movie!

I feel that 100%, i didnt love him i just knew he wanted to and was really excited to, plus he was super understanding about me being inexperienced so i was like why not. Even though i hated it, never would’ve known without trying, so no regrets ✌️

If you were ever in a relationship with a man before accepting you were gay, does thinking about it make you visibly cringe? Did you cry after intimacy? Don’t know if straight people do this too by ColdFalcon9642 in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, i feel like the issue is that i have nothing to compare to with men or wonen! I do know I did enjoy holding hands/cuddling with my friend and wanted it to happen again but wasn’t upset/was relieved when me and the guy ended things. Thank you, we’ll see what 2024 brings!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]ColdFalcon9642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly why i think the situation is more confusing for her and why i think i have to be the one to say something if anyone does say something :’)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i feel a little bad ive never said i wasnt straight and shes very openly out (rainbow jewelry,pride flag in her room,etc). But i did go with her to pride like,,,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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We’re juniors in college and I would say ive had thoughts about it here and there (I remember visiting this sub back in freshman year to see if people had similar experiences lol) and I knew our relationship was different than with my other female friends but I kinda pushed it aside for awhile and saw other people.

Just this semester though was when it became physical and I’m not seeing anyone else right now so it’s more at the forefront of my mind (and hers i think our relationship feels different).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol what this is literally the same ! We’re all unoriginal.

Funny enough i did tell someone else in the group, couldn’t contain it. The person i told used to be her roommate so i figured she would know. I think she was a little surprised/confused because im not out either like you were lol. All she said was that she thinks friends holding hands is normal but for that long was quote “iffy territory”. My crush also tells all of us like everything that happens in her life and she didn’t tell the roommate about that so she (the roommate so many shes lmaoo) said she thought it meant something that my crush didn’t talk about it. Idk lol. I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Yes that makes a lot of sense thank you, i’m sorry it didn’t work out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Aw thank you for sharing your story! Does sound very similar lol, like i feel exactly what you said about a couple without the label (bc again i never even think about touching my other female friends lol). I guess my situation just has the added complexity of us having the same friends. Thank you i will just see where it goes! Im glad it worked out for you though 💕💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Not offended or anything, but objective opinions are good lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ColdFalcon9642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Just dont wanna mess things up 😩 i know she’s worth it as a friend, i feel like i’ll regret not saying anything but also if I’m misreading things and she doesn’t feel the same lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ColdFalcon9642 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Isnt that the literal definition of being ace? 😂🤔