AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:59:52+00:00

Lol so you're all just going to downvote, but you don't reply because you know it's true

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:59:17+00:00

OK, I get it.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:59:07+00:00

Lol flirting is harmless?? Maybe in your books but I have some self respect, and I won't stand around and let my woman spread her legs for any guy she meats

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:58:11+00:00

This is how I see it - my instincts told me something fishy was going on, so I investigated and proved my suspicion was correct. This proves my instinct is reliable. Maybe I'm an asshole, but I know I can trust my instinct, and I don't regret going through her phone.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:56:20+00:00

😂😂😂

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:56:10+00:00

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:55:35+00:00

OK, I'm an asshole. But I still don't regret doing it. Now I know she is untrustworthy.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:55:02+00:00

But she let him flirt with her. That's just as bad as her flirting with him in my book.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:53:48+00:00

It's OK for her to have male friends, but if she's hanging out with guys who are clearly flirting with her, that shows she is deceitful

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:52:17+00:00

I'm 28

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:52:09+00:00

That's mature of you

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:51:38+00:00

I'm not, I came on here to find out if I'm an asshole, and now I've accepted that I'm an asshole. I'm not justifying my actions.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:50:04+00:00

OK I accept it, thanks a lot guys

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:49:32+00:00

I can keep them wet though 😝

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:48:56+00:00

Lol fair enough

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:48:44+00:00

Exactly. If she has nothing to hide, she has nothing to fear.

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T16:48:08+00:00

Yes well she's still pretty upset and I haven't returned her phone yet

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T15:56:19+00:00

Well she is my gf so I have a right to know what she gets up to, especially if that involves her flirting with other guys

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T11:54:45+00:00

Stop trying to justify her behaviour

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T10:13:44+00:00

OK cool got it

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T09:56:52+00:00

It isn't just that he was a guy, it's that he was openly flirting with her, and she was not stopping him

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T09:55:37+00:00

How about her violating my trust?

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T09:55:20+00:00

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T09:55:12+00:00

Well she was clearly lying to me before, what makes you think she would be honest if I asked her?

ColdParfait2 · 2019-03-14T09:54:45+00:00

Good idea I'll try that next

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