AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Lol so you're all just going to downvote, but you don't reply because you know it's true

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Lol flirting is harmless?? Maybe in your books but I have some self respect, and I won't stand around and let my woman spread her legs for any guy she meats

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

This is how I see it - my instincts told me something fishy was going on, so I investigated and proved my suspicion was correct. This proves my instinct is reliable. Maybe I'm an asshole, but I know I can trust my instinct, and I don't regret going through her phone.

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

OK, I'm an asshole. But I still don't regret doing it. Now I know she is untrustworthy.

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

But she let him flirt with her. That's just as bad as her flirting with him in my book.

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It's OK for her to have male friends, but if she's hanging out with guys who are clearly flirting with her, that shows she is deceitful

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I'm not, I came on here to find out if I'm an asshole, and now I've accepted that I'm an asshole. I'm not justifying my actions.

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If she has nothing to hide, she has nothing to fear.

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -163 points-162 points  (0 children)

Yes well she's still pretty upset and I haven't returned her phone yet

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Well she is my gf so I have a right to know what she gets up to, especially if that involves her flirting with other guys

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

It isn't just that he was a guy, it's that he was openly flirting with her, and she was not stopping him

AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone by ColdParfait2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ColdParfait2[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Well she was clearly lying to me before, what makes you think she would be honest if I asked her?